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  1. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Thank you for the Birthday wish!! I have had a lot going on lately and just getting back to my posts. The time before last, the doctor did send a culture to the lab for MRSA and it came back negative. She has had a drug test recently for employment and it also was negative as the paperwork came...
  2. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Well said. Yes, she has had a complete screening previously and as often as I have seen her again, I feel very confident there are no drugs involved. After seeing her for three days straight for a few hours each day, when the 4th day came, I was feeling unsettled around her and told her after an...
  3. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    She has had blood tests before when she went to to doctor for the cellulitis and nothing indicative of drugs whatsoever and as much as she has turned to someone I never would have thought, drugs are probably the only thing I believe she is not doing or has not done, certainly up to this point.
  4. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    I did mention the gun to the counselor towards the end of our meeting but our time was up so I will again talk to her about it.
  5. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    I very much agree with you in that I believe she got into this by being rebellious and then it turned into something much more than she bargained for. I told my husband that I too think there is just even something slight that seems to keep her there. What on earth it could possibly be, I have...
  6. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    She was bringing her things back inside to place in her dresser and closet. She still rode around with much of her belongings in her trunk. It was hardly two hours after coming home that she got a call from his mother but missed the call and told me his mother never calls her. Well in the...
  7. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    I know she is disrespectful and deceitful and yes I believe abusive in this sense. While she is living this appalling lifestyle, she works for what she wants and begs her father and myself for what she truly needs. Her father told her yesterday that we have our lives to live and to stop...
  8. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Yes, my husband and I have always believed their is and has been mental abuse going on and that she does live in fear. She did text me about three weeks ago that she was depressed.
  9. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    It has been a while since I last posted. Though I have ongoing issues with my back, I have recently endured two new herniated discs and several tears in my lumbar and it has been very debilitating for the last couple of months. I would like to say that my daughter's situation has improved but...
  10. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    She definitely is caught up in a terrible web of lies and living 2 different lives. So sad and heartbreaking.
  11. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    This for sure has not helped me mentally and now having ongoing issues with my back, new symptoms as well as progressed symptoms has taken a toll on me. We have seen bruises but she denies them and her stories don't line up based on where the bruises are. I know no matter how weak minded and...
  12. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    The crisis worker you were referring to--did you mean the cop? I am meeting with a counselor that handles domestic abuse cases this Tuesday because yes I know this is beyond me and she does know that help is out there if she is willing. She too, says she is going to seek counseling but...
  13. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    It is just a terrible situation. We have changed the locks on our new home and we had a security system installed recently. I have not been to a therapist on my own but I am planning on doing so. My daughter has asked me to help her and I told her she has to be willing. She has continued asking...
  14. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Things have seemed to take a turn for the worst. Not sure they were necessarily improving but her birthday was last Saturday and all in all that day turned out ok. The prior weeks we had spent time shopping together and went to lunch with her and my husband for her birthday. But the spark in her...
  15. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    For those that have read my entire thread might remember about the phone situation(his mother activated a new number through her carrier on the phone my husband and I pay for which was still under contract through Verizon) She did know better but these people never thought to ask whose account...
  16. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    This week was like old times. My daughter spent most of her days with me. Her 19th birthday is coming up next week and I did get her a few things. She still does not want to speak of him when she is with me and I have not tried to pressure her into talking or discussing this horrible situation...
  17. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Thank you for your kind words and being an inspiration.
  18. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    She wrote me yesterday stating once again that she can not handle the stress and that she does not know how she can pay for this car and if she tells him, he will be angry. Well guess what, they both knew this, he cosigned and I told her it is on him if she can not. Merely 3 paychecks, a little...
  19. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    My daughter stopped by yesterday afternoon unexpectedly after work around 3:30. She said "HI", picked up our little Westie and hugged her, jumped in the shower and grabbed a few clothes and said " and I asked her why she had to leave so quickly..she said to pick him up from work. Apparently she...
  20. Cindy Marie

    Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?

    Thank you. She is on birth control. And goodness No!! I do not contribute to her or his household. He lives with his mother, stepfather and half sisters. I haven't given her a dime since she left here nor do I plan on it and I surely wouldn't give him a penny.
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