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Hi RN0441, Thank you for your time and good thoughts...and by the way if you are a Nurse, or related...thank you so much for all that you do! I agree...we cannot change others, maybe by example, but certainly not by overt or controlling means...and that is something for both me and my fiance to...

Hi Copabanana, Thanks for the great insights and thoughts -- definitely some food for thought! Thank you very much for taking the time to really dig into what I wrote and respond with insightful and wise comments!

Hi Apple, Thanks for the additional thoughts and insights, and thank you for sharing. You've certainly had your share of challenges and my heart goes out to you for the pain you've suffered. You sound like a very strong and wise woman that has transformed her challenges and pain into...

I agree and the thought of cancelling the wedding is so painful at a core level and potentially damaging to us as a couple that I'm not sure we would be able to continue as a couple, live together, etc. My head is swimming....

Hi Crayola13, Thank you for your insights. You might be right, although I hold out the hope and optimism that anything is possible (vs. guaranteed) if you want it badly enough and take the actions that lead to the desired result. I agree about the counseling and will discuss with-my fiance...

Hi ForeverSpring, Thank you for stopping by and responding to my request for help. I appreciate your thoughts and insight. I fear you may be right and if so my heart is breaking because what I have with my fiance is so beautiful and pure and has taken me 56 years to find that the thought of...

Hi AppleCori, Thank you for investing the time here to respond to my post for help. I appreciate! Yes, my fiance hasn't done the best job at dealing with this head on, and quite frankly never has (until I showed up and offered a different approach). She's historically been the "classic"...

Hi KSM, Thanks for taking the time to respond and share your insights. I agree about seeking some professional help, particularly before we are to be married. Thank you, and peace to you :angel:

Me = 56, never married, no kids

Hi Nomad, Thank you very much for taking the time out of your day to share your thoughts. I appreciate your insights and suggestions, no doubt borne of "real-world" experience. Yes, honesty for me, is a deal breaker because without honesty and trust even the "best" relationship is on...

I hope you can share some guidance and insight. My fiancé is enabling her daughter and it’s spilling into/affecting our relationship. Some background: We live together – have dated 4.5 years, both in our mid-50s, plan to get married in 3 months. She has 2 adult children (both early 20s)...