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Hello all. I'm sorry for the lapse. In the thick of it all, and unimaginably difficult. His dad bought my son a new phone and a new car. And he is enabling him to become a perpetrator in every way imaginable. Our police department is gathering their wagons to move in on the two of them, but I've...

It's that gut feeling, isn't it? Maybe they worry about losing tuition? And this was the head of the school emeritus. She has heard of things like this. Huh? I am surprised too about the minimization of his actions. "How could you possibly believe I'm molesting people! Who the hell do you...

So my son's school, a school for kids on the spectrum, says it's fine for him to be there considering what he has done. He is watched, after all. "This is classic Asperger's - lack impulse control, poor judgment." (Don't think so -yes, all that, but not sexual predator behavior) Ok. So why am I...

This is an excerpt from another long winded abusive text from my delusional ex. "You have abruptly and without any fore notice brought abt a massive change in the lives of j and myself. You seem to think you can order me to do whatever you wAnt and I will unquestionably obey. This you may be...

Somewhereoutthere- you have 6 kids!! Bless you!

Copabanana, they are texts.

Oh, I know not to lie and they know not to lie. Yes, it's harassment. But it's all recorded which will help me. I offered this up for your amusement! Because it is so ridiculous.

And I keep getting messages from my ex telling me we have to come up with a script of what to say to minimize his troubles to social services. Even omit information if needed to spare him the consequences. He wants me to tell my other kids to lie about what their brother has done. Unreal. Or is it?

Thank you, copabanana. I will never give up hope. In fact, I will fight for hope as long as I live. And I will always let him know that I love him and will help in whatever way I can. I will never wash my hands of responsibility. I know much will be revealed this coming week. I'll keep you all...

Oh no. I am so sorry to hear this. The pit of despair you and your wife must be in is heartbreaking. I am in a similar bind with one of mine. His is a different league than depression, although he has that too. But I know what you mean about having "near-typical" children who are much easier...

The best thing about this forum is that none of you seem to bat an eye at the horrific nature of my post! And I can speak freely, more so than I have ever been able to regarding my thoughts and fears. What his father has done is deplorable. And in so many ways, as J was growing up, he let his...

Is it ok to feel disgusted by your child? I can say right now that I do. And not just "love the child, hate the behavior." I mean I have feelings of repulsion. I can't put my finger on it, but in the past year, I would feel "yucky" when he touched me in affectionate pats. It felt creepy.

No, it doesn't sound right. But that is because his father was raised to have someone else clean up the spilled milk, as it were. I can guarantee that his father is not a molester of any sort. He is more lazy, making a decision to turn a blind eye to his son's behavior. While my son was at his...

The way I see it, his father is contributing to the delinquency of a minor.

Thank you, Praecepta. You have given me lots of good tips. I will certainly heed your advice. I hope we can nip it in the bud, meaning I hope it's even possible. You are right about the consequences. He has never cared what those were. Immediate gratification has always been his downfall.

Wow. All of you. Thank you. I just spent an hour and a half on the phone with an attorney and he was shocked that my ex would tell me to do such a thing. Obstruction of justice. I won't. I have it all. And the attorney told me it was manipulation to intimidate. Obviously my son being at his...

Oh, I see that "SD" card was turned into "school district." Mistake.

When will it ever end

Thank you, ksm. Yes, we might have to consult with an attorney after all. No, my son has not been sexually abused. His is a psychopathy, I'm afraid. He is much like his father, only his main vice seems to be looking at children in sexual images. And lying about it. He is SOOO good at...

Hello everyone here. I just signed up two days ago. I'm in a big bind at the moment. My 16 year old has been looking at disturbing child porn. And He is in over his head. Two months ago we found out he had been trying to videotape his siblings in the bathroom. I have triplets, 2 boys and a girl...