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Thank you for responding... Yeap you are right and I was repeating that to myself lol, I know better now. She is not with that boyfriend she had and I am thankful for that, she was in a very abusive relationship, so is awesome that she did really decided to take care of herself leaving him ...

Hi everybody! Haven’t posted in a long time , after all the chaos with our daughter ,she got help and doing “well” for almost 3 years ...working a full time job, taking her medications, going to her doctors, living in her own place and now... she thinks she is pregnant !! Seriously?? I don’t even know...

Amy 2355 believe me it took me a while to get to this point and still,sometimes is very hard because part of me still worry. I’m very thankful that my daughter have no kids because I think it will definetly make it harder. We just have to take care of ourselves and have some peace in our lives...

Exactly! None of that happens and the times on the past that we have help her financially we still waiting for her to pay back...so entitled! I’m glad I join this group because I find people that said it how it is and definetly makes me feel better... I just think is sad that there is no way to...

Well if only she will do that and have no contact I will feel better because like you said it means being free, I mean how many more times she is going to repeat the same story ...and then the manipulation starts is just so exhausting ! I did said to her ...I can’t keep rescuing you and...

Well back here for comfort I guess and I couldn’t help but read a little of your story but is different because we have no intention to let our daughter back in our home and of course is hard and painful but is a boundarie will keep because is always the same drama , really how can she not see...

How true is that... “it becomes your new normal...” and somehow we get stronger and stronger and with acceptance , we can live our own peaceful life❤️

So glad that everything is good with you, definetly everything happens for a reason and yes, acceptance and letting go and we will see the silver lining in all of this, with an attitude of gratitude, because at the end even if we don’t understand everything will fault into place if we just live...

Thank you so much Tanya! Is funny because I even came to terms with me not being a good mother lol... God have forgive me and I have forgive myself , like you said ...is time for me to move on! What you said makes a lot of sense, I think he is having a very hard time accepting that my life...

Thank you! I know , I had been down this road with my daughter first, so I have worked on my recovery and I’m doing well and I don’t feel guilty anymore and I did tell him that I won’t tolerate him constantly blaming me, I am practicing detachment and I really don’t have time for anymore drama....

Well, I haven’t post since June, because I have gotten much better handling my daughter situation but here we go again , only this time is my son...I guess is a never ending story with our adult children, but I have to said I’m definitely more prepared now after going thru hell with our...

Well...thank you so much for your reply (recoveryenabler) feel much better now and as I am in recovery myself, yes , most of the time doesn't feel good or like love because of our own wrong idea of love. But knowing that I'm in the right path for myself and for my daughter, makes me feel a...

Recoveringenabler, I love everything you said because I am still working on this myself with my 34 year old daughter and like you said is not an easy choice to let go but I feel I am in a much better place I was months ago, I am getting sessions with a therapist and she is helping a lot but...

Yes, it is what it is and the mental illness I was referring to is bipolar disorder , she was diagnosed with both, but she won't admit the Borderline (BPD) but like you said , she needs to want that change. Thank you! Is nice to know there is people here that understand!

Thank you for responding, you gave me good ideas and I think I should just tell her the thruth, I'm sure I did before and that's why she wouldn't call me anymore for a while, and I was actually doing the not answering the phone because I didnt want to hear, is so sad and definitely ordered the...

Hi all! So glad I found this forum! Still haven't share my story and this is my first post but my story very similar to others here... just felt I have to said something because you guys are answering many questions I still have. I'm doing much better that a year ago, I got help attending...