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I hear your grief. Go gentle with yourself ❤️

Hi I'm not an expert around this. With his latest habit what comes to me is that he is seeking a reaction from you. I could be wrong. If you can, I would think trying to not be phased by his reactions and behaviours, not getting drawn in to his games by using a blank face, and using...

I hear your grief Copa.

Hi Manda I hope you're finding your way. You'll find support in groups for loved ones of addiction like Alanon, Naranon, Smart Recovery Your local drug support service (councils have to provide them) may be able to sign post you to support services for loved ones too. Look for counselling...

So sad to hear this. I was locked out too. Glad to see that I can now interact again. This site is so valuable. Thank you to everyone who continues to post on the site and for the work of the admins.

Hi there sooooo tired. So sorry that this is weighing heavily on you at the moment. I heard you say what you wanted; and that is to be able to enjoy life and have your own peace. You surely deserve that now. It sounds like she can take care of her son, but circumstances have changed. I don't...

You sound really tired about it all, a real drain on you. I hope you find your peace. In the end , we decide how much or how little we do, but if they can do it themselves I believe we should stand back and let them grow through dealing with challenges. So I am wondering if he is able to do the...

It's a toughie. Reaching out ?? Or stirring the pot ? For me it would be; their relationship is their business to work out. It's easy to get dragged into drama, but it ain't my problem to fix. They are adults. So it's not something I would bring out into the open. But I don't have to pretend...

Welcome JKL. I read your story and how your son's addiction has affected you over so many years. That addiction to the addict is sometimes called codependancy. Have you tried alanon meetings? You can do them online now. People will understand exactly how you are feeling there. Also this thread...

I made it through several of the lessons/weeks, but admit I got distracted with life as it takes quite a commitment of time. Its a fabulous resource and at no cost.

Thanks for sharing the audible offer Copa Just thought to mention there is a free mindfulness course here: https://palousemindfulness.com/

It's not a panacea. Works for some and not others.

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear dear son a year ago. I hope your dear heart will hold onto the precious and beautiful times you shared together and you will know him when he was at his best and be released from the pain which came with his addiction.

So sorry for your loss. You tried so very hard to make opportunities for him all his life. It's heartbreaking.

Hi Sabrina I am so sorry that you lost your son in that way. It sounds devastating to have to deal with that and the choices your other son has made. So much sadness. Your path is not an easy one and one you did not choose. It sounds like you have a lot of grieving to do which counseling can...

Brokeninside, my heart goes out to you. I feel the frustration. It resonates with my own on a similar matter. Same old, same old story. We can't change it.

Welcome Taffina. My heart goes out to you. I don't know what it is like to be in your shoes. What I know is that raising a family who are so called 'normal' can be the hardest job in the world. So I know that when you tell us of the challenges and worries you face on a daily basis, with no...

So sorry for your loss.

Hi Leaf Big hug to you. The way forward is not easy or simple. Disappointment, setbacks, worry, grief. That burden remains with you. But you are making your way forward in spite of what life is throwing at you. That inspires me. The way you consider your granddaughters needs moves me. What an...

february, I am so sorry you lost your child to an overdose. I can't begin to imagine what that feels like. Huggs.