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  1. Hopeful Nana

    Update.. I have custody of my three grandkids and there mother is getting rehab.

    Update.. I have custody of my three grandkids and there mother is getting rehab.
  2. Hopeful Nana

    Letting go of the need to know why

    I am still struggling with putting my daughter out of my home it's been since April 4th . I have not talked to her or my grandkids. Since then I have cried and beat myself up but in the end I had to make her accountable for her actions. I heard she moved in with her children father and his...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    With tears streaming down my face I know that everything you say is true I am thankful to have found this site to help me get through this and and it has brought me to the realization but the only hope to get through this is to let go and put it in God's hands . Thank if you're sharing it it...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I went by the house to see my son. I also walked to my house my daughter is still in...Filthy..holes punched in wall doors open unlocked no one there. They are totally trashing my home knowing that she is evicted. I never in my life would of thought that I would see that much disrespectful...
  5. Hopeful Nana

    Here we go again

    My son was in prison and we went through the same problems..I tried to help him but he knew it all and everything was someone else's fault. He did go back to prison and I learned this time I could not save or rescue him. He had a public attorney and plea bargain for less time. He changed...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I am seeing someone and I have several sisters in town I need to start getting out of the house and breath and find some thing to do. I'm so used to running after the grandkids I'm lost without them.
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I just read the article on detaching . I probably can find the book at the library on codependency. Thank you for your response this is the most difficult thing I've ever had to do.
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I have a counselor that I see when I'm overwhelmed. The lawyer also advised me not to let her drive my car ever again. I didn't realize how much trouble I could have gotten into with her driving my car. I also found out she allowed him her boyfriend to Drive as well. She now has to drive her own...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    Yes I moved out of my own home 8 months ago. I have a son that lives on the property in another mobile home. He pays half of the land payment she was supposed to pay the the other half only $250 a month. I paid the light bill so the children have electricity she uses the children to get what she...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    Yes I do pay all the bills and I pray that she is not pregnant again.
  11. Hopeful Nana

    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I even gave her my own car so she would have a way to go to work and to take the children to school. She abused the Privileges and the car was broke down within 4 months. She has her own vehicle no insurance no tag but she will have to drive that. I just can't keep enabling her .
  12. Hopeful Nana

    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I haven't talked to her since the 4th I have a trespass warrant on the boyfriend. DCF was called in she had to sh had to go to court for her son's truancy at school and her 3 daughters truancy at school. I left the home about 8 months ago she kept a job for 2 months. When I left the home the...
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I did go and have a lawyer do the paperwork on the 4th. Still crying but I realized I'm hurting her so much more than I'm helping her.
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    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    Thank you for responding my tears continue just having someone to understand what I am going through.
  15. Hopeful Nana

    Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!

    I'm a new member I hope I'm posting in the right place. My heart is breaking I have a daughter who will be 35 years old with four children of her own. She lives in my home I've I've helped her for the last 16 years raising her children.. she won't keep a job and keeps inviting the father of her...
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