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  1. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    I just read this in a post. FOG .... Fear, Obligation, Guilt This is so me! The more I read here, the more it's giving me the strenght (at least today) to do what I know needs to be done. We'll see what kind of tricks or how thick the FOG gets tonight and tomorrow, it's a day to hour tug of war...
  2. Exhaustedat22

    My sons personality has changed drastically.

    I'm in the prosess of Evicitng my 22 yr old son. He does nothing, work or school. I'm not sure if this is the answer. At least your boy is in school for now. That's so much more than I can say for mine. I have no advie to give, only support to you. I hope for the best my friend.
  3. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    "I do agree with Going North. As hard as this is, I think mixed messages are going to cause you to lose strength and credibility." I believe I have already lost strenght and credibility. Family, friends and even Kyle, and yes so many mixed messages coming in. No two situations are identical...
  4. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    I guess I'm feeding him because I know what it's like to be hungry, and I have to eat! Being hungry makes people crazy, plus I worry what he'll steal from me to get food. Guess it's cheaper to buy a little bit of food to save my belongings? I don't know??
  5. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    I don't know what I plan on doing after I finally make him leave. I feel as if I'm throwing him away, but I don't know what else I can do. I fear for his safety, his well being, what kind of trouble he'll get into. I know, he's an adult in a childs mind. I suppose I would help him get help if he...
  6. Exhaustedat22

    homeless mentally ill son who doesnt know he is

    I'm having my 22 yr old son evicted in 10 days. I know he has mental health issues. I feel as if I'm throwing him away. I'm sick about this. He's been in the basement for days again, seems to go in cycles. When he does act somewhat normal, he's a thief, liar and just refuses to do anything to be...
  7. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    On Wednesday I went to court to have Kyle evicted, he didn't show up to even defend himself. Of course the Judge signed the order. He now has until 4/8 to move our, if not I have to go back to City Hall and file one more piece of paper, then I can have the Sheriff's Dept remove him. I told him...
  8. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    As I wait for Wednesday to get here, I'm now worried that the judge won't sign an eviction order, stating something like you have enabled him this far and he has nowhere to go (that is IF he shows up for court). I wonder if he'll want to ride with me? He has no car anymore (the 2nd one I bought...
  9. Exhaustedat22

    Evicting an Adult Child

    Hello, I'm brand new to this site. I'm exhausted, emotionally drained and just tired. My son, who will be 22 in a few weeks has me at the end. I just can't continue to live like this. On December 25th I served him with a Notice to Quit. this gave him 30 days to leave, well of course he didn't...
  10. Exhaustedat22

    I've finally made the decision to evict my 22 year old son. This is one the most heart breaking...

    I've finally made the decision to evict my 22 year old son. This is one the most heart breaking decisions I've had to make.
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