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12 Year old Step Daughter with ODD & Histrionic PD we're begging for help!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tallgirl5" data-source="post: 723086" data-attributes="member: 22435"><p>Ok, had a meeting today with X's principal today. She has no access to the internet at all. School is shocked at her behavior at home because she is a total angel at school. Principal said she can either mask it very well or has amazing control. How can she have so much control at school and zero at home?? Over the weekend again more lying, stealing and food hoarding. As mentioned before she has a MAJOR issue with food. She has been banned from bringing food outside of the kitchen/dining room because she refuses to put leftovers in the garbage. We will find banana peels, apple cores, half eaten muffins all shoved between couch cushions or in drawers. </p><p>We did a "room sweep" this past weekend and found a jar of peanut butter(in the closet), a stack of kraft singles(in a drawer), a bag of chips hidden in a book case... We left the house for 10 mins to run to the hardware store. We did the room sweep when we got home. Her father told her to stay out of the kitchen while we were gone. We found a still frozen can of Strawberry Daiquiri mix behind her mirror with a spoon! We also found her sisters fall jacket(that we were trying to find last week and she denied having) and one of my B12 syringes still in the wrapper(this scared us). When asked X just says "I don't know" and shrugs and will ask why we haven't sent her away yet. That has never been an option or even on the radar!</p><p>We live in a prison with locks on all the doors. We can't leave her alone for 10 mins. How can she be perfect at school and awful at home? We were trying to justify it to ourselves saying she can't help it, but obviously she can. I'm also very aware our issues seem very mild compared to some people on here and feel terrible to even complain. We have zero control over her at home. Rules mean nothing to her. She does what she wants, when she wants. Lies, cheats and steals.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tallgirl5, post: 723086, member: 22435"] Ok, had a meeting today with X's principal today. She has no access to the internet at all. School is shocked at her behavior at home because she is a total angel at school. Principal said she can either mask it very well or has amazing control. How can she have so much control at school and zero at home?? Over the weekend again more lying, stealing and food hoarding. As mentioned before she has a MAJOR issue with food. She has been banned from bringing food outside of the kitchen/dining room because she refuses to put leftovers in the garbage. We will find banana peels, apple cores, half eaten muffins all shoved between couch cushions or in drawers. We did a "room sweep" this past weekend and found a jar of peanut butter(in the closet), a stack of kraft singles(in a drawer), a bag of chips hidden in a book case... We left the house for 10 mins to run to the hardware store. We did the room sweep when we got home. Her father told her to stay out of the kitchen while we were gone. We found a still frozen can of Strawberry Daiquiri mix behind her mirror with a spoon! We also found her sisters fall jacket(that we were trying to find last week and she denied having) and one of my B12 syringes still in the wrapper(this scared us). When asked X just says "I don't know" and shrugs and will ask why we haven't sent her away yet. That has never been an option or even on the radar! We live in a prison with locks on all the doors. We can't leave her alone for 10 mins. How can she be perfect at school and awful at home? We were trying to justify it to ourselves saying she can't help it, but obviously she can. I'm also very aware our issues seem very mild compared to some people on here and feel terrible to even complain. We have zero control over her at home. Rules mean nothing to her. She does what she wants, when she wants. Lies, cheats and steals. [/QUOTE]
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