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<blockquote data-quote="burnt out" data-source="post: 434649" data-attributes="member: 12122"><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Oh my goodness thank you all so much. I didnt sleep all last night dreaming about it all. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">He was in a bad relationship, he took his children out of the house and decided he wanted better for them. he preached straight from the bible while I was trying to get information for him to help him, but couldnt do much as all he wanted to do was read the bible to me. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I said to him so this is your and your girls new start dont stuff it up. So he goes and gets into a new relationship moves her in with him and the kids and what do you know she is now pregnant. He has such high standards for everyone else but not when it comes to himself. Sex and children out of wedlock.... the mother of the children took her children back and has moved home with her mum, I say good luck I hope the mum can sort herself out. Her mother the childrens other grandmother hasnt stepped in before and was happy to have the baby on regular cows milk fro 6mths the baby was so sick she was producing too much fleam which she would be gurgling and near drowning in her own saliva as there was too much. They all need parenting skills....</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Thing is her side is saying that my son was living this same life till the two split then my son wanted to do the right thing which I think is in part true. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Then my sons supporters are saying that he needs to get them back, as they arent being cared for... But Im positive the other grandmother will step up now after loosing her grandchildren, she has been in their life from day one, Im not there and havent been. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">There is great distance between us all. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Where his father is there are trains that he can catch and other public transport. His dad is refusing to take him though. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Where we live we are 3hours from the coast so to get out of our town I have to drive him 3 hours just to town, this is were his solicitor will be and the girls mother could meet us with her driving 1 hour with the girls to meet us. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">His solicitor is saying that unless he is home he wont have visitation as they are both parents that need support and the mum has it now she is home with her mum. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">My son has a place to stay tonight and that is it. So Im meant to book this ticket and bring him up, with everyone else expecting me to run after him and go through years of court to save his girls that I dont believe the court would see that they need saving, just the mother and grandmother needing some guidance. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I feel like my son has sucked up every once of all I have, for years now as soon as soothing happens with my other children Im a mess its like Im full up and one little things tips me over, years and years of hell. Yet im told that he was just a child.... but hell they didnt live it I really feel guilty I have nothing less weather Im hopeless or not the fact remains Im exhausted. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Then I feel guilty and my partner said to me well no-one els will take him we need to, but I know it will turn bad, he will come to town turn on us as always run us down to anyone and everyone that will listen and then leave at the first chance he gets. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">My sister in-law said he he wont stay long just long enough till he can move out with his new girlfriend, you should do this and help him get those poor girls</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="burnt out, post: 434649, member: 12122"] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Oh my goodness thank you all so much. I didnt sleep all last night dreaming about it all. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]He was in a bad relationship, he took his children out of the house and decided he wanted better for them. he preached straight from the bible while I was trying to get information for him to help him, but couldnt do much as all he wanted to do was read the bible to me. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]I said to him so this is your and your girls new start dont stuff it up. So he goes and gets into a new relationship moves her in with him and the kids and what do you know she is now pregnant. He has such high standards for everyone else but not when it comes to himself. Sex and children out of wedlock.... the mother of the children took her children back and has moved home with her mum, I say good luck I hope the mum can sort herself out. Her mother the childrens other grandmother hasnt stepped in before and was happy to have the baby on regular cows milk fro 6mths the baby was so sick she was producing too much fleam which she would be gurgling and near drowning in her own saliva as there was too much. They all need parenting skills....[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Thing is her side is saying that my son was living this same life till the two split then my son wanted to do the right thing which I think is in part true. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Then my sons supporters are saying that he needs to get them back, as they arent being cared for... But Im positive the other grandmother will step up now after loosing her grandchildren, she has been in their life from day one, Im not there and havent been. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]There is great distance between us all. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Where his father is there are trains that he can catch and other public transport. His dad is refusing to take him though. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Where we live we are 3hours from the coast so to get out of our town I have to drive him 3 hours just to town, this is were his solicitor will be and the girls mother could meet us with her driving 1 hour with the girls to meet us. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]His solicitor is saying that unless he is home he wont have visitation as they are both parents that need support and the mum has it now she is home with her mum. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]My son has a place to stay tonight and that is it. So Im meant to book this ticket and bring him up, with everyone else expecting me to run after him and go through years of court to save his girls that I dont believe the court would see that they need saving, just the mother and grandmother needing some guidance. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]I feel like my son has sucked up every once of all I have, for years now as soon as soothing happens with my other children Im a mess its like Im full up and one little things tips me over, years and years of hell. Yet im told that he was just a child.... but hell they didnt live it I really feel guilty I have nothing less weather Im hopeless or not the fact remains Im exhausted. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Then I feel guilty and my partner said to me well no-one els will take him we need to, but I know it will turn bad, he will come to town turn on us as always run us down to anyone and everyone that will listen and then leave at the first chance he gets. [/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]My sister in-law said he he wont stay long just long enough till he can move out with his new girlfriend, you should do this and help him get those poor girls[/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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