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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 434652" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Phhht, with what other people say.</p><p></p><p>How is he supposed to learn from his mistakes if he doesn't have to live with the decisions he makes? And if no one else will take him in........well then I'd say it's pretty obvious he needs to doing some major growing up and learning to stand on his own two feet. He can't do that back home with you. If he has no where to go, there are homeless shelters. If no homeless shelters, well then actually I guess that would be more motivation for him to get his act together.</p><p></p><p>I don't see why one earth people would be telling him he needs to go for custody of his girls when he currently can't take care of himself, let alone current girlfriend. But I guess it's easy to say what someone should do when you're not the one having to do it or live with it.</p><p></p><p>Your son made the decisions that got him to this point, let him figure his own way out of the mess he's made. As for the girls, sounds to me like they're better off where they're at, at least for the moment. </p><p></p><p>I really don't see any reason for you to get involved. If it were me, I'd just say sorry there is NO room at home. Which actually IS true. And let him handle it.</p><p></p><p>Sorry you're being svcked into the drama.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 434652, member: 84"] Phhht, with what other people say. How is he supposed to learn from his mistakes if he doesn't have to live with the decisions he makes? And if no one else will take him in........well then I'd say it's pretty obvious he needs to doing some major growing up and learning to stand on his own two feet. He can't do that back home with you. If he has no where to go, there are homeless shelters. If no homeless shelters, well then actually I guess that would be more motivation for him to get his act together. I don't see why one earth people would be telling him he needs to go for custody of his girls when he currently can't take care of himself, let alone current girlfriend. But I guess it's easy to say what someone should do when you're not the one having to do it or live with it. Your son made the decisions that got him to this point, let him figure his own way out of the mess he's made. As for the girls, sounds to me like they're better off where they're at, at least for the moment. I really don't see any reason for you to get involved. If it were me, I'd just say sorry there is NO room at home. Which actually IS true. And let him handle it. Sorry you're being svcked into the drama. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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