I'm following this thread, too, because dear grandson is 105 lbs now and I weigh 120. And when he rages, he's really starting to be scary. It's isn't as often, but it's more destructive for sure. And I'm scared to death to call the police because of things that have happened in our community. I don't feel safe calling them, and I don't feel safe with my grandson when he rages. Bad place to be. I'm dreading the teen years. I'm too old for this you-know-what.