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15 Year Old TRYING To Get Pregnant!
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<blockquote data-quote="MomOfGirls" data-source="post: 723925" data-attributes="member: 22487"><p>The age of consent in my state is 17. He’s 16 so I don’t know if there’s anything that can be done as far as that goes. When I caught them and I got the run around about if they used a condom birth control was my next stop. I called that Monday and made an appointment. Since we had her possession of her electronics I went through the messages and that is when I discovered that they were intentionally trying to get her pregnant! So sadly the answer to your question at the moment is she’s not really receptive to birth control but more importantly we have to wait until the latter part of next week to find out if she is pregnant if she’s not then my hope is that she will be relieved and we can get her on bc. Although it isn’t the ideal situation at least I can rest a little easier. </p><p></p><p>When this happened I emailed the therapist to let her know because she had an appointment that next night. Oddly enough daughter didn’t want to go to that appointment but we made her. She was pissy the whole time. Dad and I talked after it trying to figure out what the heck to do. We just want her safe. We made an offer - we get the whole baby idea off the table and her on bc. We allow them to be together and we give step back a little from the 24 hour watch we’ve been keeping on her. She follows house rules and gets grades up and we will start with a clean slate regarding the lies and all. She turned it down. Said no she’s rather go live with boyfriend and his dad. Mainly so she could get away from us. </p><p></p><p>This is heartbreaking to me. She’s my baby. I don’t understand what we’ve done to make her feel like this. I’m fighting multiple battles here. Trying to get her to want to stay home, trying to believe anything she says to me because there has been so many lies, trying to decide how to allow this young man who I want to do very bad things to back into her life, trying to figure what happens if she is pregnant and wants to leave (if we refuse I guarantee she will run away) , trying to figure out what to do if she isn’t pregnant and she wants to leave (probably same sutuation if we refuse). We don’t know all the dynamics of the boyfriends family but I know it’s not the best. Just the sheer fact that neither mom nor dad have a problem with their 16 year old son being gone all night multiple nights says volumes to me. I will note here though that that they don’t have a problem with it is an assumption and we are trying to contact them to find out just what they know about what’s been going on. I never in a million years thought I would be here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MomOfGirls, post: 723925, member: 22487"] The age of consent in my state is 17. He’s 16 so I don’t know if there’s anything that can be done as far as that goes. When I caught them and I got the run around about if they used a condom birth control was my next stop. I called that Monday and made an appointment. Since we had her possession of her electronics I went through the messages and that is when I discovered that they were intentionally trying to get her pregnant! So sadly the answer to your question at the moment is she’s not really receptive to birth control but more importantly we have to wait until the latter part of next week to find out if she is pregnant if she’s not then my hope is that she will be relieved and we can get her on bc. Although it isn’t the ideal situation at least I can rest a little easier. When this happened I emailed the therapist to let her know because she had an appointment that next night. Oddly enough daughter didn’t want to go to that appointment but we made her. She was pissy the whole time. Dad and I talked after it trying to figure out what the heck to do. We just want her safe. We made an offer - we get the whole baby idea off the table and her on bc. We allow them to be together and we give step back a little from the 24 hour watch we’ve been keeping on her. She follows house rules and gets grades up and we will start with a clean slate regarding the lies and all. She turned it down. Said no she’s rather go live with boyfriend and his dad. Mainly so she could get away from us. This is heartbreaking to me. She’s my baby. I don’t understand what we’ve done to make her feel like this. I’m fighting multiple battles here. Trying to get her to want to stay home, trying to believe anything she says to me because there has been so many lies, trying to decide how to allow this young man who I want to do very bad things to back into her life, trying to figure what happens if she is pregnant and wants to leave (if we refuse I guarantee she will run away) , trying to figure out what to do if she isn’t pregnant and she wants to leave (probably same sutuation if we refuse). We don’t know all the dynamics of the boyfriends family but I know it’s not the best. Just the sheer fact that neither mom nor dad have a problem with their 16 year old son being gone all night multiple nights says volumes to me. I will note here though that that they don’t have a problem with it is an assumption and we are trying to contact them to find out just what they know about what’s been going on. I never in a million years thought I would be here. [/QUOTE]
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