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15 yr old going to be arrested after court appearance tomorrow: our choice (sigh)
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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 219916" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>Me! Me! Movies and tea, and no Christmas stressing. Sounds like a plan. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry your extended family are being *#!**s. If they had some integrity and actually walked their own talk, your kids would see that their behaviors will have certain effects on others that they won't like. But your brother's and cousin's kids have far more serious bad influences on them daily than your kids ... their own fathers are demonstrating, let's see, illegal behaviors, illegal drug use, lying, hypocrisy, ... yeah. Those kids have terrible examples right under their noses everyday, worse in fact because their fathers are pretending to be upright citizens while condemning others, and getting away with it (for now). And any mothers in the case are looking the other way, silently approving the illegal drug use. </p><p></p><p>Please don't feel bad about any negative things these family members have to say; they have no right. Since they can't observe appropriate boundaries and can't even observe the law, maybe not sharing ANY news about your kids is the way to go. I've done this with two family members who just added to my grief and stress with difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katya02, post: 219916, member: 2884"] Me! Me! Movies and tea, and no Christmas stressing. Sounds like a plan. I'm sorry your extended family are being *#!**s. If they had some integrity and actually walked their own talk, your kids would see that their behaviors will have certain effects on others that they won't like. But your brother's and cousin's kids have far more serious bad influences on them daily than your kids ... their own fathers are demonstrating, let's see, illegal behaviors, illegal drug use, lying, hypocrisy, ... yeah. Those kids have terrible examples right under their noses everyday, worse in fact because their fathers are pretending to be upright citizens while condemning others, and getting away with it (for now). And any mothers in the case are looking the other way, silently approving the illegal drug use. Please don't feel bad about any negative things these family members have to say; they have no right. Since they can't observe appropriate boundaries and can't even observe the law, maybe not sharing ANY news about your kids is the way to go. I've done this with two family members who just added to my grief and stress with difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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