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<blockquote data-quote="username40" data-source="post: 729299" data-attributes="member: 22862"><p>It's make or break time, because I have a new job offer 1.5 hours away from my house but for a lot more money. I won't take it if she insists on keeping everything status quo, I'm too far when the inevitable call comes from the cops or CPS. I just got my 40K bonus, and my new job pays 80K more a year, it's a godsend. I want to:</p><p></p><p>1. Move her and the kids into an apartment away from the toxicity and the risk of CPS taking the little ones</p><p>2. I sell our home and use the proceeds to set myself up in a shitty 1 BR with the the boy, and pay off all debts</p><p>3. By August I can have them in a new home, nicer home</p><p>4. He turns 18 and I move back into the home</p><p></p><p>She wants to keep doing what we've been doing. We've had 2 CPS investigations, he has an ankle bracelet on, suspended from school, and the police to our house 11 times. It's insane to keep doing this, especially the risk it's putting the kids in. With 2 CPS investigations they're being put in jeopardy.</p><p></p><p>I won't be a party to this enabling and insanity though, if she won't make the hard decisions I'm going to move out so the kids at least have a soft landing spot when things completely implode. If just I move out, I'm not taking the new job so I'm close, and I'll need to instead file bankruptcy, so huge ramifications she won't accept any of this for what it is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="username40, post: 729299, member: 22862"] It's make or break time, because I have a new job offer 1.5 hours away from my house but for a lot more money. I won't take it if she insists on keeping everything status quo, I'm too far when the inevitable call comes from the cops or CPS. I just got my 40K bonus, and my new job pays 80K more a year, it's a godsend. I want to: 1. Move her and the kids into an apartment away from the toxicity and the risk of CPS taking the little ones 2. I sell our home and use the proceeds to set myself up in a shitty 1 BR with the the boy, and pay off all debts 3. By August I can have them in a new home, nicer home 4. He turns 18 and I move back into the home She wants to keep doing what we've been doing. We've had 2 CPS investigations, he has an ankle bracelet on, suspended from school, and the police to our house 11 times. It's insane to keep doing this, especially the risk it's putting the kids in. With 2 CPS investigations they're being put in jeopardy. I won't be a party to this enabling and insanity though, if she won't make the hard decisions I'm going to move out so the kids at least have a soft landing spot when things completely implode. If just I move out, I'm not taking the new job so I'm close, and I'll need to instead file bankruptcy, so huge ramifications she won't accept any of this for what it is. [/QUOTE]
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