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This is so very difficult. I have a sense what you are going through. My sons behaviour brought a lot of things to the surface within my marriage. We only have the one child and there were no others impacted by his behaviour in the house. Regardless it dismantled us completely becoase we were not on the same page with how to manage our sons issues.
We separated and sold our home and my son came to live with me. I had him arrested for bringing drugs into my home and he retaliated by going to live with my husband. Who I might add newly loSt his mind trying to deal with our son and his behaviour. Our son OD’d a short time after being with Dad and this was a huge wake up call for Dad.
After a lot of time and therapy we are in the same page with how to manage our son and we are back under the same roof stronger bonds than evrer before.
My heart goes out to you these are suck challenging issues.
I have no answers and I hope tou have some good supports in place for yourself.
