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<blockquote data-quote="country" data-source="post: 700361" data-attributes="member: 20890"><p>Thank you, SomewhereOutThere. I guess I hadn't thought of that, how could I not? I feel like I'm too much in the forest to see through the trees so I question my thinking, my decisions, and obviously my ability to be objective, etc... but what you say does make sense that it is drug use as a catalyst. I have tried to go through his things, facebook, phone, etc but he was very good at deleting things. I agree with your last sentence about refusing to see the worst... but it is strange because now that this has happened I torture myself with all sorts of scenarios about what is to come if I don't help him in the right way... finding him dead, his funeral, him being in prison. WHY I have no idea but I do. Probably because if I think of it then I try to delude myself into thinking I can prepare a plan to prevent it. I always tried to be proactive and aggressive with seeking treatments in helping him... I just feel so caught off guard and lost into what to do next.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="country, post: 700361, member: 20890"] Thank you, SomewhereOutThere. I guess I hadn't thought of that, how could I not? I feel like I'm too much in the forest to see through the trees so I question my thinking, my decisions, and obviously my ability to be objective, etc... but what you say does make sense that it is drug use as a catalyst. I have tried to go through his things, facebook, phone, etc but he was very good at deleting things. I agree with your last sentence about refusing to see the worst... but it is strange because now that this has happened I torture myself with all sorts of scenarios about what is to come if I don't help him in the right way... finding him dead, his funeral, him being in prison. WHY I have no idea but I do. Probably because if I think of it then I try to delude myself into thinking I can prepare a plan to prevent it. I always tried to be proactive and aggressive with seeking treatments in helping him... I just feel so caught off guard and lost into what to do next. [/QUOTE]
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