Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
19 year old homeless son
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 648610" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>This is exactly right, you can not continue to allow him to live with you in your home because A. he steals everything he can get his hands on (financial abuse) and B. He frightens you with his manipulative and controlling behavior (abuses you mentally and nationally) playing with the knife and evilly implying that he may use it on you or the family some day. No, it is not your fault that your son has to leave, it is the fact that he is an adult man that is also an abuser as in Domestic Violence Abuser. He just happens to be your son instead of a spouse/partner. Your local Domestic Violence center can help you with counseling for the issues of abuse you are dealing with your son (family abuse). You deserve better than you have been getting from your son. Frankly, if all he intends to do when he lives with you, you are better off having him out of the house.</p><p>Of course you are going to go through some pretty intense emotional trauma as you try to detach from your son. It is natural that you would. No one expects to raise a child that turns on them and becomes abusive to them. When we became mothers, that is not what we signed up for. Please read the article on the board here on detachment: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3RWzDY0MN" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3RWzDY0MN</a></p><p>Keep posting and with the support of the board members you will get through this. We don't mind or judge you on anything you feel like posting. Most of us have been there - done that and more so we understand what you are going through.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 648610, member: 18366"] This is exactly right, you can not continue to allow him to live with you in your home because A. he steals everything he can get his hands on (financial abuse) and B. He frightens you with his manipulative and controlling behavior (abuses you mentally and nationally) playing with the knife and evilly implying that he may use it on you or the family some day. No, it is not your fault that your son has to leave, it is the fact that he is an adult man that is also an abuser as in Domestic Violence Abuser. He just happens to be your son instead of a spouse/partner. Your local Domestic Violence center can help you with counseling for the issues of abuse you are dealing with your son (family abuse). You deserve better than you have been getting from your son. Frankly, if all he intends to do when he lives with you, you are better off having him out of the house. Of course you are going to go through some pretty intense emotional trauma as you try to detach from your son. It is natural that you would. No one expects to raise a child that turns on them and becomes abusive to them. When we became mothers, that is not what we signed up for. Please read the article on the board here on detachment: [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz3RWzDY0MN[/URL] Keep posting and with the support of the board members you will get through this. We don't mind or judge you on anything you feel like posting. Most of us have been there - done that and more so we understand what you are going through. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
19 year old homeless son
Top