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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 765229" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>We are in a somewhat similar situation. I recall a period of time when our son was angry and we could barely discuss our daughter with him. He wanted her sent far far away and could not understand why we associate with her at all. </p><p>These days, they are both adults. We still sort of hold back discussing our daughter with him. But will if there is a major concern. I am impressed that the very few times we asked for his advice, it was thoughtful, calm and wise.</p><p>Our daughter has caused much strife in our household. And it pains me deeply that we can't be closer. I am well aware of her good side. She definitely has one. The fact that it's clear is a lovely thing. BUT, the chaos she brings to the family and often to friends is overwhelming. It can be dangerous. We help her in a limited way and at a distance. We always try our best to be kind and courteous. But, we have set boundaries all over the place. Facing reality is what we all must do. My prayer is that something might change for the better and oddly even though I know it's unlikely...it's still part of my daily prayers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 765229, member: 4152"] We are in a somewhat similar situation. I recall a period of time when our son was angry and we could barely discuss our daughter with him. He wanted her sent far far away and could not understand why we associate with her at all. These days, they are both adults. We still sort of hold back discussing our daughter with him. But will if there is a major concern. I am impressed that the very few times we asked for his advice, it was thoughtful, calm and wise. Our daughter has caused much strife in our household. And it pains me deeply that we can't be closer. I am well aware of her good side. She definitely has one. The fact that it's clear is a lovely thing. BUT, the chaos she brings to the family and often to friends is overwhelming. It can be dangerous. We help her in a limited way and at a distance. We always try our best to be kind and courteous. But, we have set boundaries all over the place. Facing reality is what we all must do. My prayer is that something might change for the better and oddly even though I know it's unlikely...it's still part of my daily prayers. [/QUOTE]
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