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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 762780" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi. Is your daughter on drugs too? My daughter is just awful and always was and she also uses drugs. Pot has a horrible affect on her. Alcohol too.</p><p></p><p>Honestly, our having been through hell for ten years, if I had had hindsight, in your shoes I would have involved Cps to try to get custody of the baby. If not, your daughter can make you her slave and threaten to take the baby every time you don't do what she wants. Your daughter is abusing you and in my opinion you need to be protected from her and hopefully the baby can be too. If you can't rzuse the baby, can a relative? A younger one?</p><p></p><p>This will not be easy. My nice daughter went through this to get custody of my wayward daughter's son. It was expensive and the wayward daughter doesn't speak to anyone anymore. But her son is safe with his aunt now.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to get tough with our abusive adult kids but since your daughter has a child, the child needs good care and not 100 abusive uncles. The baby is more vulnerable.</p><p></p><p>I would get a lawyer and try. That is the best you can do. You can mot make your daughter nice, reliable or sane. We have no control over our disturbed adult kids. We can only control us and our reactions to our hard situations.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you have another idea but are afraid to make your daughter mad. Just do it. She is already mad. And get alarms for your home. Take precautions. It is not good for anyone to be controlled by a tyrant, even.if its our own child.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 762780, member: 1550"] Hi. Is your daughter on drugs too? My daughter is just awful and always was and she also uses drugs. Pot has a horrible affect on her. Alcohol too. Honestly, our having been through hell for ten years, if I had had hindsight, in your shoes I would have involved Cps to try to get custody of the baby. If not, your daughter can make you her slave and threaten to take the baby every time you don't do what she wants. Your daughter is abusing you and in my opinion you need to be protected from her and hopefully the baby can be too. If you can't rzuse the baby, can a relative? A younger one? This will not be easy. My nice daughter went through this to get custody of my wayward daughter's son. It was expensive and the wayward daughter doesn't speak to anyone anymore. But her son is safe with his aunt now. It is hard to get tough with our abusive adult kids but since your daughter has a child, the child needs good care and not 100 abusive uncles. The baby is more vulnerable. I would get a lawyer and try. That is the best you can do. You can mot make your daughter nice, reliable or sane. We have no control over our disturbed adult kids. We can only control us and our reactions to our hard situations. Maybe you have another idea but are afraid to make your daughter mad. Just do it. She is already mad. And get alarms for your home. Take precautions. It is not good for anyone to be controlled by a tyrant, even.if its our own child. Love and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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