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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 705847" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think SWOT is very right. Focus on you for now. On enjoying the peace, on being okay with not having him there, on making it so he cannot sneak back in. If there is a car he can sneak into, make sure it is disabled. I can walk you through the basics of how to figure that out. </p><p></p><p>Your mom has to do this on her own. She either will or won't. I would give this some time for your son to begin to wear on her and start to bleed her dry. I am sorry that it is so hard. Please keep posting here because it will get harder before it gets easier. She will put pressure on you to take him back when it gets hard on her to have him there. I have seen it in my own family. You have to stay strong and tell her that no, she is making the choice to enable him, you won't.</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 705847, member: 1233"] I think SWOT is very right. Focus on you for now. On enjoying the peace, on being okay with not having him there, on making it so he cannot sneak back in. If there is a car he can sneak into, make sure it is disabled. I can walk you through the basics of how to figure that out. Your mom has to do this on her own. She either will or won't. I would give this some time for your son to begin to wear on her and start to bleed her dry. I am sorry that it is so hard. Please keep posting here because it will get harder before it gets easier. She will put pressure on you to take him back when it gets hard on her to have him there. I have seen it in my own family. You have to stay strong and tell her that no, she is making the choice to enable him, you won't. (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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