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21 year old son refuses to stop smoking weed in the house.....
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<blockquote data-quote="startingfresh" data-source="post: 732469" data-attributes="member: 22380"><p>We had to ask son to move out at 18 because he refused to stop smoking in the house. It was very difficult and I still am dealing with feeling guilty BUT, it was the push he needed to shape up and stop smoking. He has been clean for 3 months. I believe it was a combination of not having enough funds to support both housing and weed habit, facing the fact that we were truly not going to have a relationship if he continued to be high all the time and just the logistics of not having a secret safe place to smoke anymore. Then when he was out on his own, he hit complete rock bottom and realized he didn't want that for himself. He wanted to have a family again, he wanted to be able to think clearly, and to be stable. I would never have had the courage to ask him to leave if it wasn't for the wise members of this board who have been there. I get sad when I think that he is so very young and left the nest well before I ever imagined. But for whatever reason, my son ALWAYS picks the hardest way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="startingfresh, post: 732469, member: 22380"] We had to ask son to move out at 18 because he refused to stop smoking in the house. It was very difficult and I still am dealing with feeling guilty BUT, it was the push he needed to shape up and stop smoking. He has been clean for 3 months. I believe it was a combination of not having enough funds to support both housing and weed habit, facing the fact that we were truly not going to have a relationship if he continued to be high all the time and just the logistics of not having a secret safe place to smoke anymore. Then when he was out on his own, he hit complete rock bottom and realized he didn't want that for himself. He wanted to have a family again, he wanted to be able to think clearly, and to be stable. I would never have had the courage to ask him to leave if it wasn't for the wise members of this board who have been there. I get sad when I think that he is so very young and left the nest well before I ever imagined. But for whatever reason, my son ALWAYS picks the hardest way. [/QUOTE]
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