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30 Year Old BiPolar Daughter Going Downhill (again)
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 712757" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You dont have an obligation to care for any 30 year old. There are outside services. What will she do when you are gone? Also, bipolar does not make one abusive. She must not be taking her medications, maybe is using more drugs than you know, and maybe has borderline, which CAN cause assault and does not get better without intensive INTENSIVE therapy over years snd the admission by the person that she needs help.</p><p></p><p>At your age (I am 63) our golden years are ours alone and precious. Is your daughter worried about YOU? The difficult ones dont seem to care about our health, our well being. So you have to care. Enjoy those who are good to you. Travel. Start new hobbies. Renew your marriage. Hug your dog forever (i have two beloved dogs). Maybe volunteer at an animal rescue shelter. Hub and I are buying a used RV to live in for as long as we want to travel. If you have adult children who are nice to you, enjoy them. Enjoy your friends.</p><p></p><p>I would not give your money to or housing or easy ways out to this adult woman at all. She gets SSI. She can get HUD, rent a small room in somebodys home, or use shelters and the social workers who are there to get help. She better learn how to do it. One day she will have to. Then what? SHE NEEDS TO LEARN TO GET HELP FROM THE SYSTEM BEFORE YOU ARE GONE.</p><p></p><p>Be kind to yourself first. You already gave your all to her. It didnt and wont work. She is no longer a cute little girl. She is an abusive woman who wants a mommy to still take care of her. She needs herself, not a mommy.</p><p></p><p>Love and light to you and hoping for a great rest of your life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 712757, member: 1550"] You dont have an obligation to care for any 30 year old. There are outside services. What will she do when you are gone? Also, bipolar does not make one abusive. She must not be taking her medications, maybe is using more drugs than you know, and maybe has borderline, which CAN cause assault and does not get better without intensive INTENSIVE therapy over years snd the admission by the person that she needs help. At your age (I am 63) our golden years are ours alone and precious. Is your daughter worried about YOU? The difficult ones dont seem to care about our health, our well being. So you have to care. Enjoy those who are good to you. Travel. Start new hobbies. Renew your marriage. Hug your dog forever (i have two beloved dogs). Maybe volunteer at an animal rescue shelter. Hub and I are buying a used RV to live in for as long as we want to travel. If you have adult children who are nice to you, enjoy them. Enjoy your friends. I would not give your money to or housing or easy ways out to this adult woman at all. She gets SSI. She can get HUD, rent a small room in somebodys home, or use shelters and the social workers who are there to get help. She better learn how to do it. One day she will have to. Then what? SHE NEEDS TO LEARN TO GET HELP FROM THE SYSTEM BEFORE YOU ARE GONE. Be kind to yourself first. You already gave your all to her. It didnt and wont work. She is no longer a cute little girl. She is an abusive woman who wants a mommy to still take care of her. She needs herself, not a mommy. Love and light to you and hoping for a great rest of your life. [/QUOTE]
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