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<blockquote data-quote="DebbieS" data-source="post: 732627" data-attributes="member: 23044"><p>Thank you everyone. You helped me get my strength back. My 32 year old son has borderline personality disorder, Adhd, and i believe depression. We have tried, but have not been able to help him because he refuses to listen to what we tell him. He would not go to therapy. He has the maturity of a 13 year old. I reminded him about his stuff getting stolen the first tine he left it amd so to to take his clothes with him. He decided to leave them hidden where he sleeps because he doesnt want to carry them around. I think he is embarassed. They were all stilen and i guess his cell charges because i haven't heard from him. He is not aggressive or abusive. He is sweet and kind actually. He has learned not to try abusive guilty talk because i hang up immediately! He works on amd off periodically for minimum wage. He doesnt seem to wamt steady work, which is why he is homeless. He also has NEVER held a job longer than 9 months. He had been a heroine addict 10 years ago. He recently began using and oded twice. We agreed to detox and rehab, but they refused him entry cause he wasnt sick and they felt He was just looking for free housing!! He has frequently been homeless off and on for a few years, but was couch surfing and living friends until this year. A friends place doesn't last long because he does stupid stuff, like move a girl in with him, and he doesnt follow other's wishes. Entitlement. . Not until he wound up on park bench in the winter did he decide to get two jobs to afford an apartment. We gave him security money and after a few montgs he decided he didn't like second job so he quit it. So he lost apartment. We let him be homeless, life with friends, and at one point in a junk car he bought. He's worked at good jobs, but cant keep them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DebbieS, post: 732627, member: 23044"] Thank you everyone. You helped me get my strength back. My 32 year old son has borderline personality disorder, Adhd, and i believe depression. We have tried, but have not been able to help him because he refuses to listen to what we tell him. He would not go to therapy. He has the maturity of a 13 year old. I reminded him about his stuff getting stolen the first tine he left it amd so to to take his clothes with him. He decided to leave them hidden where he sleeps because he doesnt want to carry them around. I think he is embarassed. They were all stilen and i guess his cell charges because i haven't heard from him. He is not aggressive or abusive. He is sweet and kind actually. He has learned not to try abusive guilty talk because i hang up immediately! He works on amd off periodically for minimum wage. He doesnt seem to wamt steady work, which is why he is homeless. He also has NEVER held a job longer than 9 months. He had been a heroine addict 10 years ago. He recently began using and oded twice. We agreed to detox and rehab, but they refused him entry cause he wasnt sick and they felt He was just looking for free housing!! He has frequently been homeless off and on for a few years, but was couch surfing and living friends until this year. A friends place doesn't last long because he does stupid stuff, like move a girl in with him, and he doesnt follow other's wishes. Entitlement. . Not until he wound up on park bench in the winter did he decide to get two jobs to afford an apartment. We gave him security money and after a few montgs he decided he didn't like second job so he quit it. So he lost apartment. We let him be homeless, life with friends, and at one point in a junk car he bought. He's worked at good jobs, but cant keep them. [/QUOTE]
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