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37-Year-Old Son about to be homeless
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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765378" data-attributes="member: 32799"><p>Welcome MercuryF17, so very sorry that you have to deal with this. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /> You have a very good head start of understanding the role you have played by enabling, most do not come to this idea or do not accept it. Even though we play a part in what goes on, we are not the decisions makers, they are. We cannot control them in any way and he is refusing all types of help to make himself more self sufficient. I liken it to my daughter, she wants her cake and eat it too and we know this cannot happen.</p><p></p><p>It sounds to me you have absolutely done everything you can for him and are at the very same point as me. Once my daughter gets out of jail, she too will be homeless and on the streets. Your son and my daughter may need this final push into a horrible situation to finally make them understand how good they really had it….oh I pray for both of them that they do! <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /></p><p></p><p>It’s going to be the very worst day of your life tomorrow but really needs to be done. The guilt you will feel, the sadness…we have all been there. It’s time that through all of your personal struggles with divorces and he took part in ruining the second one. My daughter has mental issues and loved to see her Dad and I very unhappy and fighting with the other.</p><p></p><p>My daughter last March decided to leave our home by herself although we were almost to the point of kicking her out again. After the shock and tears wore off my home is a much happier and peaceful place to live. You deserve the peace of mind as well, he has options to help himself and refuses them. You ARE doing the right thing! After tomorrow keep coming back and writing it all out, you will be amazed how many of are share your feelings and are right there with you. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🤗" title="Hugging face :hugging:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f917.png" data-shortname=":hugging:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765378, member: 32799"] Welcome MercuryF17, so very sorry that you have to deal with this. 🤗 You have a very good head start of understanding the role you have played by enabling, most do not come to this idea or do not accept it. Even though we play a part in what goes on, we are not the decisions makers, they are. We cannot control them in any way and he is refusing all types of help to make himself more self sufficient. I liken it to my daughter, she wants her cake and eat it too and we know this cannot happen. It sounds to me you have absolutely done everything you can for him and are at the very same point as me. Once my daughter gets out of jail, she too will be homeless and on the streets. Your son and my daughter may need this final push into a horrible situation to finally make them understand how good they really had it….oh I pray for both of them that they do! 🙏 It’s going to be the very worst day of your life tomorrow but really needs to be done. The guilt you will feel, the sadness…we have all been there. It’s time that through all of your personal struggles with divorces and he took part in ruining the second one. My daughter has mental issues and loved to see her Dad and I very unhappy and fighting with the other. My daughter last March decided to leave our home by herself although we were almost to the point of kicking her out again. After the shock and tears wore off my home is a much happier and peaceful place to live. You deserve the peace of mind as well, he has options to help himself and refuses them. You ARE doing the right thing! After tomorrow keep coming back and writing it all out, you will be amazed how many of are share your feelings and are right there with you. 🤗 [/QUOTE]
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