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43 year old homeless son
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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 637638" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>Only asking because so many people keep giving, giving, giving, without realizing that the difficult child (so : Gift from God) is unable to be there for you in your later years as witnessed by their current state of affairs. Expecting that result (them caring for you) is fantasy, pure and simple. I think that you should consider all the ways this son has victimized you: Mentally, Emotionally, physically, financially. When you can first see yourself as a victim to someone who is either mentally ill or has a personality disordered - then can you begin the long path to cutting their poison behavior out of your life. It is not for the faint of hearth but YOU CAN GET THERE from the first no - and sticking to it. Stop taking the calls and try to stop worrying. You came to a great place to get support - and from what I can see people on this board will hold your hand through whatever path you take as long as you need and ask for it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 637638, member: 18366"] Only asking because so many people keep giving, giving, giving, without realizing that the difficult child (so : Gift from God) is unable to be there for you in your later years as witnessed by their current state of affairs. Expecting that result (them caring for you) is fantasy, pure and simple. I think that you should consider all the ways this son has victimized you: Mentally, Emotionally, physically, financially. When you can first see yourself as a victim to someone who is either mentally ill or has a personality disordered - then can you begin the long path to cutting their poison behavior out of your life. It is not for the faint of hearth but YOU CAN GET THERE from the first no - and sticking to it. Stop taking the calls and try to stop worrying. You came to a great place to get support - and from what I can see people on this board will hold your hand through whatever path you take as long as you need and ask for it. [/QUOTE]
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