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6 yr old ADHD son wont wipe anything. Please Help
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 587779" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You've got a kid with a lot of problems, none that he caused. If fiance won't get him optimum level help, you may want to rethink if you want to raise this child all your life. He is going to get more and more difficult, especially without help. </p><p></p><p>School evaluations are pretty useless.</p><p></p><p>If fiance wants you to be this child's stepmother, I'd make sure he includes you in everything. It should be a dealbreaker. I read a lot of posts were fiances or live-ins are doing most of the caring for somebody's child that is partly the way he is because of the father's negligience. Is this what you really want for you life? </p><p></p><p>Take a lot of time to think about it, especially if this man blames you for his child's problems, drug exposure issues, and possible brain damage. I adopted a child like yours...he is on the autism spectrum. This child is not going to probably ever be completely "normal" and it is doubtful he can ever completely change into a typical kid. He could very well have fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, which is organic brain damage which makes children unable to retain information. This is a special needs child who will have some special needs as an adult. He may need care even as an adult, although there are outside agencies to help with that...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 587779, member: 1550"] You've got a kid with a lot of problems, none that he caused. If fiance won't get him optimum level help, you may want to rethink if you want to raise this child all your life. He is going to get more and more difficult, especially without help. School evaluations are pretty useless. If fiance wants you to be this child's stepmother, I'd make sure he includes you in everything. It should be a dealbreaker. I read a lot of posts were fiances or live-ins are doing most of the caring for somebody's child that is partly the way he is because of the father's negligience. Is this what you really want for you life? Take a lot of time to think about it, especially if this man blames you for his child's problems, drug exposure issues, and possible brain damage. I adopted a child like yours...he is on the autism spectrum. This child is not going to probably ever be completely "normal" and it is doubtful he can ever completely change into a typical kid. He could very well have fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, which is organic brain damage which makes children unable to retain information. This is a special needs child who will have some special needs as an adult. He may need care even as an adult, although there are outside agencies to help with that... [/QUOTE]
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