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9M difficult child... I'm wearing thin fast.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 613787" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Malika...no. You don't have this type of child. You don't understand. People who do have this kind of child are scared of their own kid. And there are kids who have lost their souls. It is not just due to his birthmothers drug use as there are drug affected kids who are very nice, like Sonic. This kid probably has attachment disorder and it basically means the child has no conscience. It is very hard to treat or to find somebody to treat it. I would guess they don't even acknowledge this in France or Morocco. But yet it exists all over the world, especially in the adoption community. But people are afraid to talk about these types of problems...where the kid basically acts like an mini adult with no conscience and is fine with hurting others...and there are other kids in the home to worry about too.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to have compassion when a child is hurting your other kids. You have one child and he is really rather sweet a lot of the time. This is way different. It is not fair to judge the poster this way as you have never walked in her shoes and likely, hopefully, hon, you will never have to.</p><p></p><p>This family adopted four kids. They are not lacking in compassion. This child scares them. I know the feeling. It is frustrating when people take an incredibly impossible and frightening child out on the parents...a child who the parents love and would very much love to help, yet there is no help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 613787, member: 1550"] Malika...no. You don't have this type of child. You don't understand. People who do have this kind of child are scared of their own kid. And there are kids who have lost their souls. It is not just due to his birthmothers drug use as there are drug affected kids who are very nice, like Sonic. This kid probably has attachment disorder and it basically means the child has no conscience. It is very hard to treat or to find somebody to treat it. I would guess they don't even acknowledge this in France or Morocco. But yet it exists all over the world, especially in the adoption community. But people are afraid to talk about these types of problems...where the kid basically acts like an mini adult with no conscience and is fine with hurting others...and there are other kids in the home to worry about too. It is hard to have compassion when a child is hurting your other kids. You have one child and he is really rather sweet a lot of the time. This is way different. It is not fair to judge the poster this way as you have never walked in her shoes and likely, hopefully, hon, you will never have to. This family adopted four kids. They are not lacking in compassion. This child scares them. I know the feeling. It is frustrating when people take an incredibly impossible and frightening child out on the parents...a child who the parents love and would very much love to help, yet there is no help. [/QUOTE]
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