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9M difficult child... I'm wearing thin fast.
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 613817" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I'm not condemning anyone. But if you consider being in one home with same caregivers from two week-old and having couple overnight visits to grandma and few couple hour visits with bio mom as a chaotic childhood, then my difficult child had extremely chaotic first year even though I always thought he had normal and safe enough. He visited his grandparents more than couple times overnight during his first year, he was hospitalised for a month during the more critical attachment period, he had also aunts and uncles taking care of him over night etc (because of him being such a difficult baby and me and husband being totally exhausted.) However my kid certainly has never been exhibiting any Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) symptoms but have been very clear to show he has preferred caregiver (lack of which is a criteria of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), while lying, stealing, fire setting, poor eye-contact etc. are not even though kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), like anyone else, can also develop those symptoms and for example conduct disorder.)</p><p></p><p>I think it is rather mean of you to assume that Aimless has been such a horrible parent that Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) could had developed, when all she tells us is, that this child has been well and safely cared for his whole life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 613817, member: 14557"] I'm not condemning anyone. But if you consider being in one home with same caregivers from two week-old and having couple overnight visits to grandma and few couple hour visits with bio mom as a chaotic childhood, then my difficult child had extremely chaotic first year even though I always thought he had normal and safe enough. He visited his grandparents more than couple times overnight during his first year, he was hospitalised for a month during the more critical attachment period, he had also aunts and uncles taking care of him over night etc (because of him being such a difficult baby and me and husband being totally exhausted.) However my kid certainly has never been exhibiting any Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) symptoms but have been very clear to show he has preferred caregiver (lack of which is a criteria of Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), while lying, stealing, fire setting, poor eye-contact etc. are not even though kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), like anyone else, can also develop those symptoms and for example conduct disorder.) I think it is rather mean of you to assume that Aimless has been such a horrible parent that Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) could had developed, when all she tells us is, that this child has been well and safely cared for his whole life. [/QUOTE]
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