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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 752805" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>His preferred activity lately is to isolate with his cell phone.</p><p></p><p>He is trying hard to influence me to let him back into the apartment. He called to say that he arranged to go to work tomorrow, and will have last week's verification tomorrow. His hope was that was enough to get back in. I said,<em> one, promises in the form of words were part of the problem. </em>A big part. That<em> I would not even discuss with M letting him come back without verification he is back on track, in hand.</em></p><p></p><p>He replied. <em>If I can't shower I can't go to work. I replied. That's your decision to make. </em></p><p></p><p>He replied. <em>Then I will have to sleep outside until November. </em></p><p></p><p>Me: <em>Your choice.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p>So. He called back in 15 minutes, and said he was on his way to pick up the verification from the doctor's appointment. Did I tell you that I suggested he ask the doctor for an order for a hair drug test? I don't know if that is right or wrong. But he didn't do it.</p><p></p><p>He said: <em>Why? I know what I use.</em> I replied, <em>but I don't</em>. <em>With these problems happening over and over there is the question, what might you be ingesting? </em></p><p>__</p><p></p><p>He's back sleeping in the house tonight. He brought M verification that he had gone to the doctor's today, and committed to go to work tomorrow to the job and to M. He also committed to bring last week's verification, tomorrow. For M that was enough. M wanted my son to be able to bathe and sleep. So I relented. If he does not come back from work tomorrow with verification he's out again.</p><p></p><p>M and I are both greatly relieved, recognizing we could be in the same spot tomorrow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 752805, member: 18958"] His preferred activity lately is to isolate with his cell phone. He is trying hard to influence me to let him back into the apartment. He called to say that he arranged to go to work tomorrow, and will have last week's verification tomorrow. His hope was that was enough to get back in. I said,[I] one, promises in the form of words were part of the problem. [/I]A big part. That[I] I would not even discuss with M letting him come back without verification he is back on track, in hand.[/I] He replied. [I]If I can't shower I can't go to work. I replied. That's your decision to make. [/I] He replied. [I]Then I will have to sleep outside until November. [/I] Me: [I]Your choice. [/I] So. He called back in 15 minutes, and said he was on his way to pick up the verification from the doctor's appointment. Did I tell you that I suggested he ask the doctor for an order for a hair drug test? I don't know if that is right or wrong. But he didn't do it. He said: [I]Why? I know what I use.[/I] I replied, [I]but I don't[/I]. [I]With these problems happening over and over there is the question, what might you be ingesting? [/I] __ He's back sleeping in the house tonight. He brought M verification that he had gone to the doctor's today, and committed to go to work tomorrow to the job and to M. He also committed to bring last week's verification, tomorrow. For M that was enough. M wanted my son to be able to bathe and sleep. So I relented. If he does not come back from work tomorrow with verification he's out again. M and I are both greatly relieved, recognizing we could be in the same spot tomorrow. [/QUOTE]
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