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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752813" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Wise in my opinion has a good idea. The problem is that NA is anonamyous and they won't sign that he was there although anyone on the street can scribble that he was there, even if the writer was not at the meeting. So he can't produce proof for you. Anyone can fake a letter.</p><p></p><p>I also don't think he volunteered. I'm sure they would be happy to write on letterhead that he did. But beware of him maybe taking letterhead and asking someone to pretend he was there. How? I don't know. These.kids get good at these games and lying well. Kay is a master. I trust nothing she says she did unless I see her doing it. </p><p></p><p>I am not sure we can track adult kids who know how to live on the edge. I don't think we can.</p><p></p><p>And I am not sure that we should. Forcing them into rehab won't make them serious about it. I favor for my kid actual rehab over NA although neither will probably ever happen.</p><p></p><p>But you must do, as we did, everything you feel you can or it makes us feel as if we did not do enough. The day always may come when you know there is nothing left to do.</p><p></p><p>I never thought I'd reach that point. </p><p></p><p>It's both liberating and very sad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752813, member: 23706"] Wise in my opinion has a good idea. The problem is that NA is anonamyous and they won't sign that he was there although anyone on the street can scribble that he was there, even if the writer was not at the meeting. So he can't produce proof for you. Anyone can fake a letter. I also don't think he volunteered. I'm sure they would be happy to write on letterhead that he did. But beware of him maybe taking letterhead and asking someone to pretend he was there. How? I don't know. These.kids get good at these games and lying well. Kay is a master. I trust nothing she says she did unless I see her doing it. I am not sure we can track adult kids who know how to live on the edge. I don't think we can. And I am not sure that we should. Forcing them into rehab won't make them serious about it. I favor for my kid actual rehab over NA although neither will probably ever happen. But you must do, as we did, everything you feel you can or it makes us feel as if we did not do enough. The day always may come when you know there is nothing left to do. I never thought I'd reach that point. It's both liberating and very sad. [/QUOTE]
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