I spoke with her just now. I pretty much said what you suggested before even reading your post - we must be on the same page! She was worried about the cost of the counseling. I reminded her she has insurance so the copay is only $25/visit; twice a month won't kill her. She asked me to look on the website for a provider by her and email her the list. I will send her the link and she can look it up on her own.
She vented some more. Apparently, even though he has today off (she doesn't), he told her it was her turn to do the laundry since he's done it the last couple of times - on his day off! She tried to call him at home, but he's not answering the phone. She thinks he's still asleep. She also found out through a friend that this Thursday before his graduation on Friday, he was invited out by another pastry class of girls to join them in celebration at a local pub. He told her about going to the bar with his fellow classmates, but he never mentioned that he was invited by a bunch of girls. easy child is a bit peeved. I reminded her that when she and boyfriend signed the lease that I told her that she will never be and should never feeltrapped. She said she knew.
Thanks again.