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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 710250" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Welcome Betty,</p><p></p><p>This is a heartbreaking story. There is nothing to say that could justify your daughter's behavior either towards you or towards her own children. That she allows herself to be manipulated by questionable men who she barely knows does not take away from the fact that she is harming her children and putting herself into a risky and vulnerable situation.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are here and I hope you keep posting. There are a number of grandmothers who post. Some are, or have been in the situation you find yourself.</p><p></p><p>That said, I feel confident in saying that your daughter will reappear when it suits here. This relationship will end, and end badly. The guy while 38, seems to have no personal stability or resources to handle the needs of a family of 3. How long do you think his mother will deal with this? Not long, I can assure you.</p><p></p><p>That said, I would be very cautious about accepting her and the kids back without your own conditions. It really seems like you were doing the parenting. Unless your daughter is willing to cede custody to you or some kind of legal rights, I would be very careful about letting her back. Because it will be continue to be the same kind of revolving door. You will have your heart broken over and over again. And the children will have their hearts broken, too. Your daughter seems indifferent or oblivious. You cannot be.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you have the attorney. He or she will guide you.</p><p></p><p>Welcome. Take care. I am sorry for your hurt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 710250, member: 18958"] Welcome Betty, This is a heartbreaking story. There is nothing to say that could justify your daughter's behavior either towards you or towards her own children. That she allows herself to be manipulated by questionable men who she barely knows does not take away from the fact that she is harming her children and putting herself into a risky and vulnerable situation. I am glad you are here and I hope you keep posting. There are a number of grandmothers who post. Some are, or have been in the situation you find yourself. That said, I feel confident in saying that your daughter will reappear when it suits here. This relationship will end, and end badly. The guy while 38, seems to have no personal stability or resources to handle the needs of a family of 3. How long do you think his mother will deal with this? Not long, I can assure you. That said, I would be very cautious about accepting her and the kids back without your own conditions. It really seems like you were doing the parenting. Unless your daughter is willing to cede custody to you or some kind of legal rights, I would be very careful about letting her back. Because it will be continue to be the same kind of revolving door. You will have your heart broken over and over again. And the children will have their hearts broken, too. Your daughter seems indifferent or oblivious. You cannot be. I am glad you have the attorney. He or she will guide you. Welcome. Take care. I am sorry for your hurt. [/QUOTE]
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