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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 740551" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Copa, you and I have been round the same merry go round. It just keeps coming back to the same place - the realty that THEY have to take the steps and do the work. They seem incapable, but they’re not. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep. I think you’ve got this right. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I think this is very insightful. If you tell yourself there is no way out you don’t have to do the work of looking for it. It’s like they are in a room insisting they are trapped. And we are saying look, there is a door. Here is another door. They are unlocked. There is even a window if you dont like doors. Or you can even use this tool to cut a brand new door - here, take it. And they are sitting on the floor repeating there is no way out, there’s Always a reason none of the windows or doors would work for them. Maybe for someone else, but not for them. They want us to enter the room and carry them out. But even if we do that - they end up back in the same room, or another just like it. </p><p></p><p>But who knows what the future will bring. Perhaps in time they will be ready to get up off the floor and do the work of turning a door knob.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 740551, member: 23349"] Copa, you and I have been round the same merry go round. It just keeps coming back to the same place - the realty that THEY have to take the steps and do the work. They seem incapable, but they’re not. Yep. I think you’ve got this right. I think this is very insightful. If you tell yourself there is no way out you don’t have to do the work of looking for it. It’s like they are in a room insisting they are trapped. And we are saying look, there is a door. Here is another door. They are unlocked. There is even a window if you dont like doors. Or you can even use this tool to cut a brand new door - here, take it. And they are sitting on the floor repeating there is no way out, there’s Always a reason none of the windows or doors would work for them. Maybe for someone else, but not for them. They want us to enter the room and carry them out. But even if we do that - they end up back in the same room, or another just like it. But who knows what the future will bring. Perhaps in time they will be ready to get up off the floor and do the work of turning a door knob. [/QUOTE]
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