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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 745055" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Dont go in my opinion. Its your house. Why should YOU leave? Makes no sense. Sorry, Misssy, strongly disagree here. I do not believe WE should run away. I dont think most here do or would.</p><p></p><p>Our adult kids have no business making us feel we should leave our sanctuary for them. Misssy, in my opinion if you feel that way, its time for your son to leave, not you. in my opinion its crazy to leave your own house for a 20 something year old man who decides to make your life miserable, adult child or not. </p><p></p><p> Back to Acacia...</p><p></p><p> Your husband is your partner and your son sure wont be there for you if you leave your husband because your son chooses his crazy life and you decide to support it. He had no business coming home. You told him not to. Your home/your rules.</p><p></p><p>If your son gets a ticket it is his problem, not yours. You know you cant fix your son or make him want to be sober but he doesnt have to stay in your house upsetting the well behaved people in the family who deserve peace. Including you. Whatever you decide to do tonight, get him out tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>20 years of your life is enough. Your son needs to figure iut what to do. Or not. He is an adult. He has to decide.</p><p></p><p>We all deserve a sanctuary in our home. I am sorry Son came there when he knows he shouldnt. Tell yourself one day at a time. Buy him a bus ticket back to sober living or he can find a shelter if he wont go.</p><p></p><p>Do not let him abuse you. Remember that a grown man, son or not, can be a domestic abuser.</p><p></p><p>Hugs, love and light. You can do this. He is not a little boy anymore and his next move is up to him. You have been there before. Just breathe and get through the night.</p><p></p><p>Peace!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 745055, member: 1550"] Dont go in my opinion. Its your house. Why should YOU leave? Makes no sense. Sorry, Misssy, strongly disagree here. I do not believe WE should run away. I dont think most here do or would. Our adult kids have no business making us feel we should leave our sanctuary for them. Misssy, in my opinion if you feel that way, its time for your son to leave, not you. in my opinion its crazy to leave your own house for a 20 something year old man who decides to make your life miserable, adult child or not. Back to Acacia... Your husband is your partner and your son sure wont be there for you if you leave your husband because your son chooses his crazy life and you decide to support it. He had no business coming home. You told him not to. Your home/your rules. If your son gets a ticket it is his problem, not yours. You know you cant fix your son or make him want to be sober but he doesnt have to stay in your house upsetting the well behaved people in the family who deserve peace. Including you. Whatever you decide to do tonight, get him out tomorrow. 20 years of your life is enough. Your son needs to figure iut what to do. Or not. He is an adult. He has to decide. We all deserve a sanctuary in our home. I am sorry Son came there when he knows he shouldnt. Tell yourself one day at a time. Buy him a bus ticket back to sober living or he can find a shelter if he wont go. Do not let him abuse you. Remember that a grown man, son or not, can be a domestic abuser. Hugs, love and light. You can do this. He is not a little boy anymore and his next move is up to him. You have been there before. Just breathe and get through the night. Peace! [/QUOTE]
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