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<blockquote data-quote="UKMummy" data-source="post: 686253" data-attributes="member: 19939"><p>It's funny how things change in your head when you've had a few days to process things. He was very much taking responsibility for his choices and the consequences of those choices i.e. Not living in the family home since the age of 16 beacause of his appalling behaviour. I was initially really impressed and thought maybe there were some changes and progress.</p><p>But then I remember that this is what he does when we haven't had contact for a while. He takes responsibility, makes all of the right noises about wanting to make amends. As visits go on it soon turns. Everything is my fault. His life is s*** because Of me. He has no money beacause of me etc. </p><p>I hope this time is different. I really hope this is the time things change. Am I confident? No not really. I think it's who his is. I think he'll always break my heart. </p><p>I'm stronger than I was. I have an amazing, supportive partner. I have this forum that has made such a HUGE difference to the way I see things. I am cautious. I have to be. Thank you x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UKMummy, post: 686253, member: 19939"] It's funny how things change in your head when you've had a few days to process things. He was very much taking responsibility for his choices and the consequences of those choices i.e. Not living in the family home since the age of 16 beacause of his appalling behaviour. I was initially really impressed and thought maybe there were some changes and progress. But then I remember that this is what he does when we haven't had contact for a while. He takes responsibility, makes all of the right noises about wanting to make amends. As visits go on it soon turns. Everything is my fault. His life is s*** because Of me. He has no money beacause of me etc. I hope this time is different. I really hope this is the time things change. Am I confident? No not really. I think it's who his is. I think he'll always break my heart. I'm stronger than I was. I have an amazing, supportive partner. I have this forum that has made such a HUGE difference to the way I see things. I am cautious. I have to be. Thank you x [/QUOTE]
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