My sister got an email today from my difficult child asking her for $138 to pay for birth control and pills for a "blater" infection with a phone # to call her at. My sis forwarded this email to me and this is what happened.
I asked difficult child why she didnt call and let me know that she had a script that she wanted/needed filled. She then said that I said I would pay for birth control and f this and f that and then hung up. I called the pharmacy that it was at and had them add my extended benefit # so that her antibiotic wouldnt be so much and found out that she asked for 6 months of BC. Not likely. I then asked if they took Visa over the phone as I was going to pay for 3 months BC and her antibiotic. They said they didnt but the antibiotic was $9.85. I called back to tell her that and her boyfriend answered the phone. I told him that I couldnt pay for it at the store and wouldnt send her cash and wasnt paying for 6 months. He then verbally attacked me and told me that I was an awful parent and that if I had raised difficult child differently then she wouldnt be the way she was and that it was my fault that she was in trouble, etc. I told him that I wasnt perfect and never claimed to be and that I had done the best I could with what I had. He went on how I wanted her in jail and I started a bunch of rumors about her. I continued to repeat what I said earlier and that I had done what I thought was best, but maybe it wasnt, I wasnt perfect. This went on and on for 45 minutes UNTIL he told me that she was better off where she was with "Anne & Paul" and himself and was mad that I didnt ask them what they were like. I told him that I could have asked and for all I know they could have been crack dealers.. would they really have told me that??? Dont think so. He then told me that Paul was an RCMP officer. Nice huh?? difficult child lived at his house for 2 weeks before she was picked up. She is 16. They didnt wonder where her parents were or if anyone was looking for her?? difficult child's boyfriend claims that they didnt until the police showed up to pick her up. I call Bu**s**t. I think "Paul" knew exactly what was going on. What police officer would let a 16 yr old from the street stay with them, no ?'s asked?? He knew, I knew it. That makes me rather angry. Im going to talk to my friend who is a Cpl with the RCMP about it. I think its a bit unethical personally..........
The boyfriend just doesnt get it. Im the bad person and if Id been a better parent she wouldnt be where she is today. Not understanding that she has a disability and that is what has caused this problem. I also told him that if he was the one sleeping with her then maybe he should be the one paying for her birth control.
On the court front, she got 9 months probation, a 9 pm curfew, has to hold a job or go to school and live as directed, which is with "Anne & Paul" who I dont know thier last name or thier address.
What a mess. She can do what she wants.... it doesnt matter what I say or do. Im garbage and know nothing. Oh ya... the boyfriend asked who was going to pay child support. LMAO!!!! Pretty much said he was going to take someone to court to make it happen. Lets see him try...... She has a place to live and parents that love her... she just chooses not to live with us.
Ally
I asked difficult child why she didnt call and let me know that she had a script that she wanted/needed filled. She then said that I said I would pay for birth control and f this and f that and then hung up. I called the pharmacy that it was at and had them add my extended benefit # so that her antibiotic wouldnt be so much and found out that she asked for 6 months of BC. Not likely. I then asked if they took Visa over the phone as I was going to pay for 3 months BC and her antibiotic. They said they didnt but the antibiotic was $9.85. I called back to tell her that and her boyfriend answered the phone. I told him that I couldnt pay for it at the store and wouldnt send her cash and wasnt paying for 6 months. He then verbally attacked me and told me that I was an awful parent and that if I had raised difficult child differently then she wouldnt be the way she was and that it was my fault that she was in trouble, etc. I told him that I wasnt perfect and never claimed to be and that I had done the best I could with what I had. He went on how I wanted her in jail and I started a bunch of rumors about her. I continued to repeat what I said earlier and that I had done what I thought was best, but maybe it wasnt, I wasnt perfect. This went on and on for 45 minutes UNTIL he told me that she was better off where she was with "Anne & Paul" and himself and was mad that I didnt ask them what they were like. I told him that I could have asked and for all I know they could have been crack dealers.. would they really have told me that??? Dont think so. He then told me that Paul was an RCMP officer. Nice huh?? difficult child lived at his house for 2 weeks before she was picked up. She is 16. They didnt wonder where her parents were or if anyone was looking for her?? difficult child's boyfriend claims that they didnt until the police showed up to pick her up. I call Bu**s**t. I think "Paul" knew exactly what was going on. What police officer would let a 16 yr old from the street stay with them, no ?'s asked?? He knew, I knew it. That makes me rather angry. Im going to talk to my friend who is a Cpl with the RCMP about it. I think its a bit unethical personally..........
The boyfriend just doesnt get it. Im the bad person and if Id been a better parent she wouldnt be where she is today. Not understanding that she has a disability and that is what has caused this problem. I also told him that if he was the one sleeping with her then maybe he should be the one paying for her birth control.
On the court front, she got 9 months probation, a 9 pm curfew, has to hold a job or go to school and live as directed, which is with "Anne & Paul" who I dont know thier last name or thier address.
What a mess. She can do what she wants.... it doesnt matter what I say or do. Im garbage and know nothing. Oh ya... the boyfriend asked who was going to pay child support. LMAO!!!! Pretty much said he was going to take someone to court to make it happen. Lets see him try...... She has a place to live and parents that love her... she just chooses not to live with us.
Ally
that our kids give out and still give them what they want. Its our job as parents. I told him otherwise, he doesnt get it.
