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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 743774" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Can't quote.</p><p></p><p>No matter what he does to me. No matter what he says to me. I will love him.</p><p></p><p>There is so much here. Thank you tl.</p><p></p><p>One. What circumstances in my life does this repeat?</p><p></p><p>Two. Life requires choice. At the most basic, aversion to painful, ruinous consequences and seeking reward and sustenance and pleasure.</p><p></p><p>That implies what does that do to me if I override this decision process (saying no to hurt) to reassure my son in order to take away his pain? Am I a universal shock absorber? Can I not even allow myself to feel let alone say "ouch"? Does my sin need to hear my ouch in order to grow as a responsible conscious person?</p><p></p><p>So the corollary is how does that affect him, my suppressing complaint? </p><p></p><p>Remind me to talk about the oral period in infancy where there is no conscious separation between infant and mother. There is the need to separate to be fully human.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 743774, member: 18958"] Can't quote. No matter what he does to me. No matter what he says to me. I will love him. There is so much here. Thank you tl. One. What circumstances in my life does this repeat? Two. Life requires choice. At the most basic, aversion to painful, ruinous consequences and seeking reward and sustenance and pleasure. That implies what does that do to me if I override this decision process (saying no to hurt) to reassure my son in order to take away his pain? Am I a universal shock absorber? Can I not even allow myself to feel let alone say "ouch"? Does my sin need to hear my ouch in order to grow as a responsible conscious person? So the corollary is how does that affect him, my suppressing complaint? Remind me to talk about the oral period in infancy where there is no conscious separation between infant and mother. There is the need to separate to be fully human. [/QUOTE]
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