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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 701539" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Jetsam, one thing that helped me with that distinction between enabling and helping is "when you are enabling, it feels bad, you feel resentment, anger, sorrow, etc.......and when you are giving from loving kindness, <em>you feel good.</em>" That helped me so much to begin determining where I was.......(and for quite some time, it felt bad). But that definition, although simplistic, really helped me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 701539, member: 13542"] Jetsam, one thing that helped me with that distinction between enabling and helping is "when you are enabling, it feels bad, you feel resentment, anger, sorrow, etc.......and when you are giving from loving kindness, [I]you feel good.[/I]" That helped me so much to begin determining where I was.......(and for quite some time, it felt bad). But that definition, although simplistic, really helped me. [/QUOTE]
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