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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 701734" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Jodie, I'm happy to hear you're moving ahead with your own life. I felt similarly when I stopped enabling my daughter, taking the focus off of them and putting it on us is a positive, healthy choice and, at least for me, I had to relearn or perhaps, learn, how to take care of ME.</p><p></p><p>There's a joke in the codependent world........"when a codependent passes away, they see <u>someone else's life</u> flashing before their eyes." </p><p></p><p>I learned that rescuing another can indeed mean that we are avoiding not only our own problems, but the entirety of our own lives. </p><p></p><p>There's a whole world out there waiting for you to show up Jodie.......go for it!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 701734, member: 13542"] Jodie, I'm happy to hear you're moving ahead with your own life. I felt similarly when I stopped enabling my daughter, taking the focus off of them and putting it on us is a positive, healthy choice and, at least for me, I had to relearn or perhaps, learn, how to take care of ME. There's a joke in the codependent world........"when a codependent passes away, they see [U]someone else's life[/U] flashing before their eyes." I learned that rescuing another can indeed mean that we are avoiding not only our own problems, but the entirety of our own lives. There's a whole world out there waiting for you to show up Jodie.......go for it! [/QUOTE]
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