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Ack - Enabling??
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 478781" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>TL</p><p></p><p>I didn't mean to come off sounding cold and unfeeling. I was just trying to give you the bottom line. </p><p></p><p>I understand you want to support him, but there is a very fine line we walk where supporting can turn into enabling without us realizing it. That's what I hoped you'd see.</p><p></p><p>If he needs some hygiene stuff, go to dollar tree or dollar store and make him up a care package and send it. Try not to ever give him cash. It avoids temptation on his part, avoids you accidentally enabling because he's far enough away you can't be sure what is actually going on.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 478781, member: 84"] TL I didn't mean to come off sounding cold and unfeeling. I was just trying to give you the bottom line. I understand you want to support him, but there is a very fine line we walk where supporting can turn into enabling without us realizing it. That's what I hoped you'd see. If he needs some hygiene stuff, go to dollar tree or dollar store and make him up a care package and send it. Try not to ever give him cash. It avoids temptation on his part, avoids you accidentally enabling because he's far enough away you can't be sure what is actually going on. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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