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<blockquote data-quote="Debis Done" data-source="post: 757996" data-attributes="member: 25613"><p>My significant other has 3 children from his first marriage and 1 from his second that he adopted </p><p>All but one Treat me as if i am the enemy </p><p>I recently discovered by helping him with his business bookkeeping that his daughter whom is 41 years old, married with 3 adult children of her own and has helped him with his business bookeeping for about 5 years or more has been paying her own families bills and buying “wants”</p><p>With her fathers business account </p><p>For years . He is about to lose his business due to the downturn in oilfield production in the area we live which is heavily dependent on oil production</p><p>She has been aware of his financial situation and has chosen to go ahead and squeeze in her bills here and there knowing he’s broke</p><p>I managed to get him to look at his accounting without accusing or saying a lot and he was quite hurt and disappointed when he saw what had been happening . The situation has gotten to the point that he had to lay her off and I’ve been helping him outside of my regular job to keep it done </p><p>Now, the daughter will not speak to me and acts like I’m the one to blame . Mind you this is the second time he has had to tell her to quit using his business credit cards and checking account for her personal expenses </p><p>I’m not quite sure how to react to her flippant attitude toward me like i am the problem </p><p>Any advice out there?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Debis Done, post: 757996, member: 25613"] My significant other has 3 children from his first marriage and 1 from his second that he adopted All but one Treat me as if i am the enemy I recently discovered by helping him with his business bookkeeping that his daughter whom is 41 years old, married with 3 adult children of her own and has helped him with his business bookeeping for about 5 years or more has been paying her own families bills and buying “wants” With her fathers business account For years . He is about to lose his business due to the downturn in oilfield production in the area we live which is heavily dependent on oil production She has been aware of his financial situation and has chosen to go ahead and squeeze in her bills here and there knowing he’s broke I managed to get him to look at his accounting without accusing or saying a lot and he was quite hurt and disappointed when he saw what had been happening . The situation has gotten to the point that he had to lay her off and I’ve been helping him outside of my regular job to keep it done Now, the daughter will not speak to me and acts like I’m the one to blame . Mind you this is the second time he has had to tell her to quit using his business credit cards and checking account for her personal expenses I’m not quite sure how to react to her flippant attitude toward me like i am the problem Any advice out there? [/QUOTE]
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