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Adult daughter stole all of our money
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 749951" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Oh no.</p><p></p><p>First, If this is your real name, please consider changing your name here to protect your confidentiality and that of your family. You can send a private message to Runaway Bunny at the top right inbox, and she will change it.</p><p></p><p>You are not the only one this has happened to, on this board. But that doesn't make it any easier to bear. I am so very sorry.</p><p></p><p>This is what I think you need to do.</p><p></p><p>You grieve. This is horrible what happened. Your husband is ill. You work night and day. Your daughter who you trust wipes you out. Who wouldn't feel devastated?</p><p></p><p>Then, you need to secure everything that is left. And investigate any assets you have to make sure they are secure. Your home title, if you have a home. Get a credit report and review it.</p><p></p><p>You will need to decide whether or not to file a police report. This is a very important question. You could have some recourse with a police report and it is important that your daughter have consequences. Protecting her may not be the best thing. But this may not be an easy thing to decide.</p><p></p><p>If you have insurance there may be some help there.</p><p></p><p>Then there is the issue of why. No matter how much she victimized you, she is your daughter. Is she using drugs? Is she mentally ill? Is there some kind of personality disorder? I am not forgiving what she did, but how much risk there is, and what happens next, depends upon what fueled this.</p><p></p><p>Have you spoken to her? What does she say? Did anything like this happen before? </p><p></p><p>Does your husband know?</p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry. Others will be along soon. Welcome. I wish this had not happened, but you will get good counsel and support here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 749951, member: 18958"] Oh no. First, If this is your real name, please consider changing your name here to protect your confidentiality and that of your family. You can send a private message to Runaway Bunny at the top right inbox, and she will change it. You are not the only one this has happened to, on this board. But that doesn't make it any easier to bear. I am so very sorry. This is what I think you need to do. You grieve. This is horrible what happened. Your husband is ill. You work night and day. Your daughter who you trust wipes you out. Who wouldn't feel devastated? Then, you need to secure everything that is left. And investigate any assets you have to make sure they are secure. Your home title, if you have a home. Get a credit report and review it. You will need to decide whether or not to file a police report. This is a very important question. You could have some recourse with a police report and it is important that your daughter have consequences. Protecting her may not be the best thing. But this may not be an easy thing to decide. If you have insurance there may be some help there. Then there is the issue of why. No matter how much she victimized you, she is your daughter. Is she using drugs? Is she mentally ill? Is there some kind of personality disorder? I am not forgiving what she did, but how much risk there is, and what happens next, depends upon what fueled this. Have you spoken to her? What does she say? Did anything like this happen before? Does your husband know? I am so very sorry. Others will be along soon. Welcome. I wish this had not happened, but you will get good counsel and support here. [/QUOTE]
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