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Adult daughter stole all of our money
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 749965" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">RecoveringEnabler above just sent you a link above or she can do it for you if you send her a private message through the inbox. The inbox is at the top to the right to the left of alerts.</span></p></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I know.</span></p></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">This part is very important what Apple asks about the police. What happened when you called the police? Was she arrested?</span></p></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p></span></p><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">How is your husband doing?</span></p></p> <p style="text-align: left">RecoveringEnabler above just sent you a link above or she can do it for you if you send her a private message through the inbox. The inbox is at the top to the right to the left of alerts.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I know.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">This part is very important what Apple asks about the police. What happened when you called the police? Was she arrested?</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">How is your husband doing?</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I know how this must hard. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I think you need to do whatever you can do to compartmentalize right now. To do what you have to do, and to put the pain to the side. The consequences are too dire, disastrous. The human relationships will be worked out, as time goes by. The important thing now is that you and your husband and mother are protected from further crime and if possible, the money recouped. That is too much money to have gone down the drain. Somebody or various somebodies likely has some of it, still. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I would try very, very hard to focus on that. This is not stealing money out of your purse. This is multiple crimes. I think this is embezzlement, identity theft and grand theft. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">There have been other mothers here with this same problem. I remember one daughter stole $20,000 to buy designer purses and clothes. The mother was sick. In this case the daughter agreed to pay back the money. But $100,000. How could anybody pay this back. That's why it is to your daughter's advantage that you face this head on, now, where there still could be some money.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">How in the world did she get this kind of debt? And why was she transferring your money to her friends? Do you know?</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">Anybody would have a hard time with this, but it still must be faced. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">The people here are very smart, kind and we have all been through the mill. You will find kindness and caring here. I will stop badgering you about this. I am sorry. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I am so sorry that husband had the bad stroke. How is he doing? I can just imagine how hard it is all of this on top of your head. I think you are strong and smart to count your blessings. In the light of all of this. Many, many people could never ever recover. And here you are, doing just that. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left">About half a dozen of us are reading a book called <u>Gifts of Acceptance</u>, by Miller. Mine just came today. Busy posted about it in a thread, which is the title of the book. All of us together are going to do a book club thread.</p> <p style="text-align: left"></p> <p style="text-align: left">Busy said this book has changed completely her outlook and her life. Why not join us in the book club?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 749965, member: 18958"] [LEFT][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)][LEFT][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)]RecoveringEnabler above just sent you a link above or she can do it for you if you send her a private message through the inbox. The inbox is at the top to the right to the left of alerts. I know. This part is very important what Apple asks about the police. What happened when you called the police? Was she arrested? How is your husband doing?[/COLOR][/LEFT] RecoveringEnabler above just sent you a link above or she can do it for you if you send her a private message through the inbox. The inbox is at the top to the right to the left of alerts. I know. This part is very important what Apple asks about the police. What happened when you called the police? Was she arrested? How is your husband doing? I know how this must hard. I think you need to do whatever you can do to compartmentalize right now. To do what you have to do, and to put the pain to the side. The consequences are too dire, disastrous. The human relationships will be worked out, as time goes by. The important thing now is that you and your husband and mother are protected from further crime and if possible, the money recouped. That is too much money to have gone down the drain. Somebody or various somebodies likely has some of it, still. I would try very, very hard to focus on that. This is not stealing money out of your purse. This is multiple crimes. I think this is embezzlement, identity theft and grand theft. There have been other mothers here with this same problem. I remember one daughter stole $20,000 to buy designer purses and clothes. The mother was sick. In this case the daughter agreed to pay back the money. But $100,000. How could anybody pay this back. That's why it is to your daughter's advantage that you face this head on, now, where there still could be some money. How in the world did she get this kind of debt? And why was she transferring your money to her friends? Do you know? Anybody would have a hard time with this, but it still must be faced. The people here are very smart, kind and we have all been through the mill. You will find kindness and caring here. I will stop badgering you about this. I am sorry. I am so sorry that husband had the bad stroke. How is he doing? I can just imagine how hard it is all of this on top of your head. I think you are strong and smart to count your blessings. In the light of all of this. Many, many people could never ever recover. And here you are, doing just that. [/COLOR] About half a dozen of us are reading a book called [U]Gifts of Acceptance[/U], by Miller. Mine just came today. Busy posted about it in a thread, which is the title of the book. All of us together are going to do a book club thread. Busy said this book has changed completely her outlook and her life. Why not join us in the book club?[/LEFT] [/QUOTE]
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