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<blockquote data-quote="jeanne in CA" data-source="post: 627822" data-attributes="member: 18036"><p>COM- I totally understand what you mean. I can't recall the last time I said, "I would never..." I could never imagine doing what I have had to do. And for those who do say that, I just think, "just you wait until you are really tested." May they always live in peace with their children. </p><p> </p><p>Witzend- as convoluted as that is, <strong>your description totally resonates</strong>. I could just not make sense of it. It is so convoluted I think I have to write it down to even remember it! </p><p> </p><p>When I analyze the specifics of her actions, it occurs to me that the theft came in all shapes and sizes, in this case, from a few hundred dollars from one account to over $45,000 from another. It occurs to me that she stole from us using every way possible without a weapon. Her methods were varied and creative. They include, but may not be limited to the following:</p><p>1. She stole our checks, made them out to herself and then forged our signatures on the bottom. </p><p>2. She took out payday loans in our names and then emptied out our accounts before the loans could be paid back. </p><p>3. She made electronic transfers from our accounts to hers.</p><p>4. Stole retirement checks from our mailbox and deposited them into her own account.</p><p>5. She forged written withdrawal forms to empty out our accounts.</p><p>6. She impersonated me on the telephone to request that my funds be sent to her. </p><p>7. She changed my contact information on accounts to intercept checks and statements and take over accounts. </p><p>8. She took out lines of credit and cash advances on bank accounts.</p><p>9. She charged thousands of dollars on credit cards and Paypal accounts.</p><p>10. She put stop payments on my checks.</p><p>11. She stole my debit cards and withdrew thousands of dollars from my checking accounts. </p><p>12. She took money I gave her to pay some of our bills when my checks kept bouncing, kept the money, and left the bills unpaid.</p><p>It is a heart-breaking list. One that demonstrates creativity and determination. </p><p> </p><p>Thank you all again for your posts and your support. I have spent a very long time without being able to talk about this with anyone who even remotely can understand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jeanne in CA, post: 627822, member: 18036"] COM- I totally understand what you mean. I can't recall the last time I said, "I would never..." I could never imagine doing what I have had to do. And for those who do say that, I just think, "just you wait until you are really tested." May they always live in peace with their children. Witzend- as convoluted as that is, [B]your description totally resonates[/B]. I could just not make sense of it. It is so convoluted I think I have to write it down to even remember it! When I analyze the specifics of her actions, it occurs to me that the theft came in all shapes and sizes, in this case, from a few hundred dollars from one account to over $45,000 from another. It occurs to me that she stole from us using every way possible without a weapon. Her methods were varied and creative. They include, but may not be limited to the following: 1. She stole our checks, made them out to herself and then forged our signatures on the bottom. 2. She took out payday loans in our names and then emptied out our accounts before the loans could be paid back. 3. She made electronic transfers from our accounts to hers. 4. Stole retirement checks from our mailbox and deposited them into her own account. 5. She forged written withdrawal forms to empty out our accounts. 6. She impersonated me on the telephone to request that my funds be sent to her. 7. She changed my contact information on accounts to intercept checks and statements and take over accounts. 8. She took out lines of credit and cash advances on bank accounts. 9. She charged thousands of dollars on credit cards and Paypal accounts. 10. She put stop payments on my checks. 11. She stole my debit cards and withdrew thousands of dollars from my checking accounts. 12. She took money I gave her to pay some of our bills when my checks kept bouncing, kept the money, and left the bills unpaid. It is a heart-breaking list. One that demonstrates creativity and determination. Thank you all again for your posts and your support. I have spent a very long time without being able to talk about this with anyone who even remotely can understand. [/QUOTE]
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