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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 701219" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>why do you feel you have to take care of an abusive brother who takes pills, wont work and doesnt even show kindness to you ill mother? it is a choice...to me a puzzling one. is he good for your kids?</p><p></p><p>I would send him packing. He is a big boy and has not improved in your home. Maybe he needs to be on his own, even if he refuses to take good care of himself. That is his responsibility, not yours in my opinion. if he wants to not work and be homeless or in a shelter, he is old enough to make that choice. He can collect welare, Medicaid and other government programs. Msny of us have done this to our own kids, hard as it was, because we could not tolerate the behavior at home...it didnt help them or us. And most of thise kids were shown the door in their 20s, not at 40. Your brother is using you without any remorse for taking from you. He may have a pwesonality disorder...you cant fix that.</p><p></p><p>Others will come along. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 701219, member: 1550"] why do you feel you have to take care of an abusive brother who takes pills, wont work and doesnt even show kindness to you ill mother? it is a choice...to me a puzzling one. is he good for your kids? I would send him packing. He is a big boy and has not improved in your home. Maybe he needs to be on his own, even if he refuses to take good care of himself. That is his responsibility, not yours in my opinion. if he wants to not work and be homeless or in a shelter, he is old enough to make that choice. He can collect welare, Medicaid and other government programs. Msny of us have done this to our own kids, hard as it was, because we could not tolerate the behavior at home...it didnt help them or us. And most of thise kids were shown the door in their 20s, not at 40. Your brother is using you without any remorse for taking from you. He may have a pwesonality disorder...you cant fix that. Others will come along. I know this isnt what you wanted to hear... [/QUOTE]
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