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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 749996" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>It needs to be determined what he is capable of doing, how much, etc. The idea of him going off his medications is problematic. What level is he capable of functioning with or without assistance from you?</p><p></p><p>if it's a fire hazard or if mice become a problem, you will need to have it cleaned out. Your insurance company won't insure it anymore !f they think it's a fire hazard. What you are describing about the car reminds me of a similar scenario twenty years ago. The guy had mice in his car. It was full of trash, food, etc. If this goes on with his apartment, you will eventually have to call in a hazmat crew. Everything will have to be disposed of, etc.</p><p></p><p>I admit this is a situation that would make me give up. I hate to admit it, but I would probably have it cleaned on a regular basis regardless of your son's ability to clean it. This type of behavior would drive me over the edge really fast. Rather than deal with my e.options regarding this problem, I would give in and hire the cleaning service or clean it myself once a week, continuing to slow him to live there. This is just a situation I've seen with friends and relatives. I truly would fall apart under these circumstances. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry I don't have better advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 749996, member: 21066"] It needs to be determined what he is capable of doing, how much, etc. The idea of him going off his medications is problematic. What level is he capable of functioning with or without assistance from you? if it's a fire hazard or if mice become a problem, you will need to have it cleaned out. Your insurance company won't insure it anymore !f they think it's a fire hazard. What you are describing about the car reminds me of a similar scenario twenty years ago. The guy had mice in his car. It was full of trash, food, etc. If this goes on with his apartment, you will eventually have to call in a hazmat crew. Everything will have to be disposed of, etc. I admit this is a situation that would make me give up. I hate to admit it, but I would probably have it cleaned on a regular basis regardless of your son's ability to clean it. This type of behavior would drive me over the edge really fast. Rather than deal with my e.options regarding this problem, I would give in and hire the cleaning service or clean it myself once a week, continuing to slow him to live there. This is just a situation I've seen with friends and relatives. I truly would fall apart under these circumstances. I'm sorry I don't have better advice. [/QUOTE]
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