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<blockquote data-quote="mom_in_training" data-source="post: 30120" data-attributes="member: 2727"><p>Geeze SunnyFlorida I guess its a tough call depending on the person requiring the help. And you are right we can help too much to the point of enabling. Its a gamble, You provide all of the tools to aid in helping another but at times do not see much effort on their part and want to just throw your hands up. I know there will be a time when I will have to let go when I feel that I have done all that I can, I suppose that will happen when I see no effort on my difficult children part along with her having no desire to be a decent human being and a productive citizen. I do not underestimate the fact that my difficult child has the ability to make better choices considering that she has been and will again be given the tools needed to use to her advantage. If she chooses not to then that unfortunately will be her choice and it will be devastating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_in_training, post: 30120, member: 2727"] Geeze SunnyFlorida I guess its a tough call depending on the person requiring the help. And you are right we can help too much to the point of enabling. Its a gamble, You provide all of the tools to aid in helping another but at times do not see much effort on their part and want to just throw your hands up. I know there will be a time when I will have to let go when I feel that I have done all that I can, I suppose that will happen when I see no effort on my difficult children part along with her having no desire to be a decent human being and a productive citizen. I do not underestimate the fact that my difficult child has the ability to make better choices considering that she has been and will again be given the tools needed to use to her advantage. If she chooses not to then that unfortunately will be her choice and it will be devastating. [/QUOTE]
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