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Advice from those who've been there done that (family/long/sorry)
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<blockquote data-quote="skeeter" data-source="post: 38349" data-attributes="member: 439"><p>Melissa - as much as you want to, you can't help your soon to be ex sister in law until SHE wants help. She has to take the steps to get your brother out of her life. You can't "save" her from him.</p><p></p><p>You have to take care of yourself. You can tell her IF she ever gets him totally out of her life, you will be there for her. But until that time, she's on her own. Maybe SHE needs to hit bottom by being totally alone - without even your support - to finally come to grips with your brother.</p><p></p><p>I'm sure it's terribly hard, but it's the only way I can see YOU surviving.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="skeeter, post: 38349, member: 439"] Melissa - as much as you want to, you can't help your soon to be ex sister in law until SHE wants help. She has to take the steps to get your brother out of her life. You can't "save" her from him. You have to take care of yourself. You can tell her IF she ever gets him totally out of her life, you will be there for her. But until that time, she's on her own. Maybe SHE needs to hit bottom by being totally alone - without even your support - to finally come to grips with your brother. I'm sure it's terribly hard, but it's the only way I can see YOU surviving. [/QUOTE]
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