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<blockquote data-quote="Nessie" data-source="post: 716505" data-attributes="member: 21463"><p>Somewhere out there I think you are right I just need to have maintain my own boundaries. I'm aware giving him money is enabling him to continue his destructive path and I suppose I do it to maintain contact. In some mixed up way it makes me feel like I am taking care of him and I know the opposite is true.</p><p></p><p>I will avoid confrontations and try not to have any expectations. Michelle, you are right also, it is him who needs to figure out what kind of a relationship he wants with me.</p><p></p><p>Little boy lost it really is draining. Almost every hour of every day I think of him and this has to stop. I cannot change what is going to happen because he is making his own choices. I'm sorry that we all find ourselves in this turmoil.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nessie, post: 716505, member: 21463"] Somewhere out there I think you are right I just need to have maintain my own boundaries. I'm aware giving him money is enabling him to continue his destructive path and I suppose I do it to maintain contact. In some mixed up way it makes me feel like I am taking care of him and I know the opposite is true. I will avoid confrontations and try not to have any expectations. Michelle, you are right also, it is him who needs to figure out what kind of a relationship he wants with me. Little boy lost it really is draining. Almost every hour of every day I think of him and this has to stop. I cannot change what is going to happen because he is making his own choices. I'm sorry that we all find ourselves in this turmoil. [/QUOTE]
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