I honestly don't see him lasting very long in an after school care, especially YMCA. I went through preschools like crazy with my son. Finally had him evaluated and found out then he was disabled in many ways. Even with my son, when he was little, I had baby sitters quit and finally had to have a sitter who only watched him. That worked. But I had two different sitters, one for my other kids and one for him. It was hard, especially after working all day. After work I would have to take him to a park so he could burn off his energy- he had ADHD and was on Ritalin during school hours. Hec- the school had to hire extra person just for him. One time, the principal was actually chasing him outside around the school. I had to go pick him up.